One of the greatest consumers of anyone's time,is being with someone that clearly doesn't want to be with you.
If you're in a relationship where you're the one always trying to make things happen, always begging for love and affection, always giving to your partner but never receiving anything in return, consistently being neglected and ignored and most of all you only become a necessity if is to bring some type of pleasure to the other party, I think Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles, can clearly see that its time to make your exit!
A parasite is something that feeds off of something that is living! A parasitic relationship is where you'd find a person in a relationship who consumes or takes away everything from the other person with zero remorse, guilt or shame. These folks are self centered, egotistical, arrogant and selfish are but a few word to describe this person, that have absolutely no concern for you. In fact it is their belief that they were placed on the earth for the world to cater and serve them.
I don't know who you are this morning, but clearly you don't know your worth or you've been convinced otherwise. This fool that you're with has intercepted and diverted you from your God intended partner. At best this person is a hindrance to your God divine appointments and through your association with them it will be nearly impossible for you to succeed in life but more importantly enjoy life.There is someone out there more than likely in search of you who is willing and able and has been purposefully design to treat you like the King or Queen that you are. However, your current relationship has misled you into taking on a love-slave mentality that provides zero benefits to you! WAKE UP! AND ASK GOD TO BREAK THAT SPELL OFF OF YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW SO THAT YOU CAN BE AVAILABLE FOR WHAT GOD HAS SPECIFICALLY MADE JUST FOR YOU!
There are many today, who have refused to accept such simple advice and are now living a life of deep rooted regrets that has since transformed into bitterness. This post is just confirmation to what you know good and well you should have done a longtime ago.
If you've found yourself in this position, I beg you to remove yourself from this toxic parasitic relationship immediately. It is depleting you of your self-esteem, confidence, and polluting your purpose. If you don't leave, then you will eventually become bitter, angry, confused and see life and love in a completely negative light. Bottom line, your parasitic partner would have succeeded in transforming you into DAMAGED GOODS!
My words of wisdom in unequivocally and abundantly clear on this morning and they are:
"IF YOUR "SO CALLED" RIGHT HAND OFFENDS YOU CUT IT OFF NOW"
Written By: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com
I don't think anyone could have said it any better, we settle for way less than we deserve, we accept poor treatment as the norm because we probably didn't see good examples growing up or our self esteem has been so damaged because more likely than not we have had more than one parasitic relationship so we have been beaten down into this mindset that, that's all we should expect and most times we are getting signs and signals as big as the moon from God but so blinded by our desperate desire for love and to be loved that we don't realise God is telling us we are better and deserve better than what we are settling for. And sometimes the better is being single for a spell and letting Him do a good work on us but we are impatient and want that relationship now because all our friends or family or co workers are in relationships so we rather stay in a bad one than show up to a function or family get together alone but I pray that some day we would all get it together and walk away from this sort of situation because the person on the receiving end isn't going to make it easy to walk away either, they have programmed you just the way they like, strength of purpose and faith in God will be the keys to freedom, making up your mind that your worth is more important than the parasite's happiness.
ReplyDeleteKevin...biblically can u bind andcrebuke these demons? I guess its demonic...would love to know ur understanding. Thank you n Elohim bless ypu
ReplyDeleteNothing is impossible for our heavenly father..surely these fowl jezebel Jezebel narcist spirits can be destroyed by our heavenly father in Jesus mighty name..what is possible for God is impossible for man..kevin would love u teach your followers in christ..
ReplyDeleteWhat happens than if I have a child with such a person. I can leave and still maintain a co-parenting relation with such a person?
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