One of the greatest errors that we make in life that would eventually change the course of our lives, is our inability to carefully analyze the seeds we plant in our lives.
Now to be clear in what I am saying, I am referring to seeds as, people that we would eventually marry or what I also refer to as folks we forge covenants with. Scriptures, says that every seed produces or replicates after its kind, Genesis 1:11. In other word an Apple seed must produce Apples and a grape seed will only produce grape. Jesus himself said, “Make a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit”, Matthew 12:33.
Using the above mentioned spiritual law as our point of reference, we must now ask ourselves the question, why is it that we rarely if ever do our due diligence, in terms of research on the FAMILY of the person that we intend to forge a covenant with in regards to marrying them? Again, if the biblical law dictates that every seed produces after its kind then why do we insist on marrying that man or woman whom we know good and well, is a descendant from a family of Alcoholics, Sweetheart keepers, divorcee, barrenness, anti-God, etc.?
Let me be crystal clear here! I am not discriminating against such families, I am not even remotely suggesting you're too good for them. However, what I am saying, is the spiritual seed (curse) of that family is automatically levied on the descendant of the members of that family. Therefore, until the curse is recognized and broken, you are in essence marrying or covenanting with the evil spiritual forces that plague that family. Again, it does not matter what these persons portray on the outside. For example, your future mate maybe a Lawyer, Doctor, CEO of a company or even own their own business, unknowing to these people if their family line is under a particular curse then it will be just a matter of time before they will be challenge by the evil trends of their family. Again, once a family is under a curse it is only a matter of time before the signs of what that family is all about decides to display itself. It’s like time release capsules that’s released in each member of that family and things begin to go down hill from that point forward. Interestingly enough, any family member that attempts to break this curse or decides to give their life to the lord will be targeted by the spirits that govern the curse over the family to place overwhelming pressure on that family member that attempts to break free.
The older generations had a clear understanding of this. Do you recall back in the day when you brought your significant other over to meet your parents or grandparents? While you were all about listing the good qualities along with how beautiful or handsome your significant others were, your folks wanted to know where they came from in terms of family. The first question your folks would ask, particularly your grandparents would be, "Sweetie who ya people is"? In other words which family do you hail from? Of course the reasoning behind this was quite clear to the parents and grandparents and that is they wanted to connect the fruit which would have been your significant other to the tree which was the family they came from to determine if they would add to your life or take away from your life.
Old folks sayings such as, "Look before you leap" and "A little can tell you what a lot will be like" were all rooted in the biblical laws that says, "Every seed produces after its kind, Genesis 1:11 and you’d know the tree by its fruit, Matthew 12:33. Make no mistake, every family have secrets and more than likely you'll never know these secrets, especially in the beginning of the courtship. Nevertheless, the tentacle of whatever those secrets are in that family will eventually rear its head in the members of that family one day and by extension into the lives of those that they marry. Trust me when I say to you that there are many folks walking about daily that appear normal and seem to have everything in place. However, deep within them is a time release capsule of utter misery waiting for the right victim to bind themselves to and released the curse upon their lives. In all fairness to the family member that’s carrying the curse more than likely they have zero idea that they are under a curse. Therefore, it isn’t unusual to hear a victim of these circumstances make the following statements, “Man if I had known what I know now I would never marry so and so”. “Boy! From the day I said I do, my life was never the same and happiness is but a distant memory to me”.
You see my friend, the kind of society we reside in, promotes the idea of marrying someone that can help you or someone that have a good job, education etc. The reality is you’re program from a young age to only observe the outward appearance, again such as education, a person having their own home or business etc. When the reality is these things will eventually mean absolutely nothing when the person with these things that you once saw as a security net is making your life a living hell. Stupid advice from those that claim they want the best for you, such as, “Love who love you”, “Marry someone who could do for you” or “Make sure the person you marry have a good car, house and a degree” is in reality unconsciously setting you up for future disaster. Many of you reading this article right now I am sure can relate to what I am saying simply because you’re probably currently living this nightmare or you had a former experience.
Nevertheless it will always and continue to be God's desire for all of us to experience a happy and fulfilling life. This is why He insist we read and apply his spiritual laws that will cause us to navigate our way through life and connect with his best for our lives. The scripture says that there is a way that will always seem right to us but we are guaranteed according to this same spiritual law that destruction will be our end result when we decide to do things our way, Proverbs 16:25.
I do not know who God is speaking to through this article today, but what I do know is that God knows the end of all beginnings. Thus, he's fully aware of how your beginning will end with your future prospect. Therefore, place your misleading feelings and emotions on hold for a moment and earnestly ask the creator of all things, "Lord is this the person you desire me to be a life partner with? Father, please reveal to me the things I am ignorant to about this person, because your word clearly states that we are destroyed because of a lack of knowledge, Hosea 4:6.
Lord you know my heart and I cannot hide from you how I feel about this person but at the same time I cannot afford to waste my precious life with this person if this is not the person for me. Therefore lord, if this is not your best choice for me, then just how you harden the heart of Pharaoh to resist Moses, I am begging you to harden my heart towards this person so that I would not marry this person who would ultimately change the course of my life for the worse in Jesus mighty name. Amen!
Friends hear me in your spirit today, everyone have family curses and family blessings, ask God right now to break you free from any blood line curses that maybe over your life that you may not be aware of and to enforce the generational blessing of your ancestors upon your life in Jesus mighty name amen!
Written By: Kevin L A Ewing