Tuesday, March 20, 2012

I love you but I'm not in love with you


The above topic can be considered some of the most devastating words ever spoken into the hearing of anyone, particularly those who were under the impression that they were involved in a sincere and committed relationship. In fact it can become so devastating, that the recipient of these words can spiral into a deep depression and a state of utter hopelessness as a result of it.


Today we want to unearth some very common but overlooked relationship signs that signal this all too common statement prior to its admission. Simultaneously, we will discover where the recipient of these words for the most part were equally responsible for such an outcome, thus,   making themselves co-conspirators to their own predictable ending.


Denial of anything is defined as the disbelief in the existence or reality of a thing. It can also be defined as the refusal to recognize or acknowledge what is blatantly obvious to everyone else but intentionally ignored and dismissed by others. This is worthy to note at this strategic point in our teaching because we will also discover that denial, inordinate love coupled with non-reciprocal caring, affection and general concern in a relationship provides all the necessary components for an unhappy and predictable ending.


Amazingly, I have discovered that it has become normal for folks to intentionally live in a constant state of denial in their relationships in order to maintain and sustain a so called “peace of mind”. Now, I will admit, this was quite difficult for me to comprehend until I understood two very important things about the folks that do this, and they are A) They are severely lacking in confidence and understanding and B) They have program themselves to believe that they cannot exist or function properly without this person whom they’ve willing subject themselves to under the deception of true love.


Let’s shift our attention for a second and begin to shine the lime light on the one that makes such a statement and the word I want to use in this teaching in labeling this person is the word vain. The word vain is defined as: being excessively proud of or concerned about one's own appearance, qualities, achievements, etc. also a person that lacks the ability to genuinely care or sincerely be concern about the interest or well-being of someone else.


With the above understanding, it now takes us into the mind of such a person and why it is so easy for them to lead others into a make believe world of unpretentious love and without notice do away with them as if they never mattered at all. It is important to note here that these people diligently seek their prey and the type of persons that they are looking for are those that never had the love of a mother or Father, those that are on the rebound from a previous relationship, those that lack confidence, those that are easily dependent on other people, and more importantly those that trust easily and without question subject themselves to the will of others. The truth is, these deceivers will temporarily become what you desire in an effort to get from you what they want and in most cases the tenure of this process is short live and concluding with the victim becoming extremely hurt and outrageously bitter, and the perpetrator walking away with absolutely no remorse or sense of guilt. In fact, in the victim’s quest to figure out from the perpetrator what has happened the perpetrator sees the victim as a bother and sees themselves as a victim…… wow!


Scripture reminds us that those that follow after vain persons shall have more than enough poverty, Proverbs 28:19. Poverty is characterized as, the state or condition of having little or no money, goods, or means of support; condition of being poor. So it is safe to say that the main sign of such folks is their unique ability to take from us and consistently leaving us in a lacking state particularly emotionally. Scripture further warns us that, “He that follows vain people are void of understanding” Proverbs 12:11. So as you would have read in the above scripture the one that is following this vain person lacks understanding, meaning when they would have decided to ignore or deny the reality of this person it is clear that they also do not understand the pending hurt and pain that this person will issue them in short order.


Therefore because of the callousness of this person it is easy for them to issue the words “I love you but I’m not in love with you” unfortunately, because they were never in love in the first place. The bible tells us that we will know them by their fruits. A fruit is the clear unequivocal sign of what a tree is. If the fruit is an apple then the tree must be an apple tree. In this case if this person’s fruits are insensitivity, selfishness, and sees you as a stepping stone rather than an equal’ then it is abundantly clear that you are dealing with a vain person that you need to have removed from your life expeditiously if you’re interested in having a happy life.


My words of wisdom to you on this day is to, abandon the denial mindset that you have created to accommodate your misleading relationship. If you insist on keeping things they way that they are, then prepare yourself for the all too common words “I love you but I’m not in love with you”. In all honesty these words are reserved until a new victim has been discovered by the perpetrator, which is an additional sign to you that their time with you has come to an abrupt halt.


Heavenly Father, I pray that you expose this vain spirit and bring their diabolical intent to an immediate halt. I also pray that every reader of this article will look for the fruits of these individuals as signs in recognizing this deceptive evil in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.


Written by: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com 

Monday, March 12, 2012

Cursed People, Produce Cursed Relationships


Today, we will explore the topic of relationship curses. These teachings aim to give you a deeper understanding of how such curses can operate in a person's life, often covertly.

We often hear the word "blessings" from our pulpits so much that one must wonder, do curses even exist? Moreover, are we unknowingly involved with people or things that may be producing curses in our lives? Have you ever wondered why you and your partner just can't agree, or has your desire that was once reserved for your mate uncontrollably drifted off towards a former partner? And what about this one? You are willing to risk the security of your current relationship for a moment with a former partner who cannot provide for you?

Deuteronomy 28:15 warns that you will suffer from various curses if you don't follow God's commandments and statutes. These curses can be expressed wishes for evil or misfortune to befall a person, place, or object. They may come from supernatural sources like witchcraft or negative words spoken against someone. The bottom line is that curses can limit the potential of their victims until they are removed.

According to the Scripture above, a curse is brought about by disobeying God's commands and statutes. This implies that for someone to successfully curse or cast spells on another person, the victim must be violating God's laws, meaning there must be a spiritual opening in their lives.

Regarding relationships, each one has a purpose of preparing you for your ultimate relationship. Even if a past relationship didn't work out, there was still something important that you were supposed to learn from it. It's essential to remember that you should never bring the baggage of your previous relationships into your current one. Every new beginning deserves a fresh start, so it's crucial to let go of the past and start anew.

For your new relationship to stand a chance at success and a fresh start, you must destroy or remove all photos, letters, jewelry, clothing, or anything that brings the behavior, idea, or memory of your past relationship into your current relationship. Especially if the former relationship was sexually charged, abusive, deceitful, adulterous, frustrating, etc. The reason is that these items and people are now considered things accursed as they relate to your new relationship. Any presence of them will produce a repeat in your currently existing relationship with an end result of the division between the parties involved.

Let's look at what God instructed Moses to tell the children of Israel before they entered Canaan, the Promised Land. "Speak to the children of Israel and say to them, 'When you have crossed over the Jordan into the land of Canaan, you shall drive out all the inhabitants of the land from before you, destroy all their pictures and molten images, and completely demolish all their high places.'" (Numbers 33:51-52)

The Scripture mentioned above suggests that to avoid repeating past mistakes, we must disassociate ourselves from certain aspects of our past. This is particularly important for individuals who are starting new relationships and may struggle with the desire to return to their former partners despite being treated poorly by them. This desire may be fueled by letters, cards, pictures, or other items exchanged between the parties during their previous relationship. As long as these items remain in their possession, they may negatively influence their current relationships, potentially leading to their downfall.

In the book of Joshua, God warned Joshua and his people about the city of Jericho. Everything in the city was considered cursed, and they were told to keep themselves away from the cursed things and people. Failure to do so would bring a curse upon themselves and their people. The Scripture from Joshua 6:18 reads, "And ye, in any wise keep yourselves from the accursed thing, lest ye make yourselves accursed, when ye take of the accursed thing, and make the camp of Israel a curse, and trouble it." It's interesting how holding onto items or people from past relationships can lead to trouble in current relationships.

It's interesting to note that Scripture does provide a solution to this. God informed the children of Israel that to remove the curse, the following must occur: "And it shall be, that he that is taken with the accursed thing shall be burnt with fire, he and all that he hath: because he hath transgressed the covenant of the LORD and because he hath wrought folly in Israel." (Joshua 7:15). However, I do not suggest you burn your former mate with fire. Instead, it is recommended that you destroy all items and things obtained in that relationship by fire and discontinue all forms of communication with that person, such as texting, emails, voicemails, phone calls, WhatsApp, and so on.

Would your current relationship not be reaching its full potential because either you or your partner are still secretly interacting with former partners? Could the piece of jewelry from your ex-lover that you've never mentioned to your current partner be the cause of conflict in your relationship? Is it possible that the lingerie given to you by your former partner is the reason for your sexual dissatisfaction with your husband because it reminds you vividly of your ex and gives you a solid temptation to rekindle your relationship?

Dear friend, if you wish to have peace of mind and a healthy relationship, it is essential to remove any people or things from your life that bring you back into bondage with those whom God has released you from. Even things that are remotely related to them can invoke a curse on your relationship. This morning, God is speaking to you. You have prayed to God for understanding and a solution to the discord in your relationship. Please use the revelation that he has provided for you.

There is a way that seems right to a man, but the end of his route guarantees him death Proverbs 16:25.


Kevin L A Ewing
ewinglakevin@icloud.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com
www.kevinlaewing.com





Tuesday, March 6, 2012

The Mystery of Faith!

The mystery of faith!

What is faith? Well scripture tells us that Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God, Romans 10:17. Therefore FAITH IS THE WORD OF GOD!

Whenever you exercise your faith you are in fact exercising the word of God. Whatever you are believing God for, DO NOT BELIEVE IN THE THING, BUT BELIEVE IN THE WORD OF GOD CONCERNING THE THING!

As money is the currency for goods and services in our natural world, so is faith the currency for things in the spirit world. Remember faith is the substance (substance is the material or the contents of what something is made up of). This same  faith is also the evidence (the evidence of anything is literally the proof of it) of things not seen.

So, simply put the word of God is the material of what I am hoping for and the word of God is also the evidence of the things I don't have or presently see, Hebrews 11:1.

Whenever you approach God for whatever it is that you desire, he will always search your request for FAITH or his word. Meaning what does his word say about what you're asking for. Scripture makes this clear when it said, "IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO PLEASE GOD WITHOUT FAITH OR HIS WORD, Hebrews 11:6.

Please, click on the link and watch this much needed teaching on faith...................http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/20791535


Minister Kevin L A Ewing

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