Marriage in Your Dreams: What Are The Spiritual Implications

Some of the most common dreams I am asked to interpret are dreams in which a person is getting married
or observing a wedding.

Let me make this clear: any form of marriage in a dream immediately indicates a covenant or agreement, and for the most part, an evil one. I have discovered, in my many years of interpreting dreams, that such dreams are the source of unmarried people finding it difficult to get married, and married people having constant trouble in their marriage. Here is why these dreams create such challenges.

What a Spiritual Marriage Really Is

Being married in a dream reveals what the spirit world calls a spiritual marriage. The reality is that you are being married to a spirit. Whoever the person is that you're marrying in the dream, even if they appear to be your husband or wife, in most cases this is what is known as a masquerading spirit. A masquerading spirit is really a familiar spirit, and a familiar spirit is, in essence, a spirit that is very familiar with the dreamer and, by extension, the victim's family. In the Western world, we frequently refer to these spirits as incubus and succubus. In the Eastern world, these same spirits are referred to as a spirit husband and a spirit wife.

The Effect on Single People

Once a marriage takes place in the dream, in the spirit realm, the dreamer, if single in reality, will find it difficult to secure the right mate. This spirit, which also goes by the name spirit husband or spirit wife depending on the sex of the dreamer, will fight tooth and nail to keep away any prospective mates who would desire to marry the dreamer, because, unknown to the dreamer, the dreamer is already spiritually married to this spirit.

The evidence of this in the physical realm is that no matter how attractive or educated the victim may be, they will forever find it difficult to maintain relationships. It will appear as if they always encounter the same type of people, giving them the same old, depressing, failed relationship results.

If They Do Get Married

If the victim does manage to get married, I can assure you that the union will end in divorce, because this spirit will always manipulate the victim into marrying the wrong person to make the victim's life a living hell. This couple will never agree on anything. Either one or both parties will be overly jealous, selfish, and controlling, and verbally or physically abusive toward each other. The primary sign will be an obvious, blatant lack of respect from both parties. What is even more challenging is that if this spirit is not recognized and rebuked from this person's life, the victim will likely encounter several marriages without ever realizing the spirit behind their circumstances.

The Effect on Married People

For those who are already married, if you see yourself getting married in a dream, even if the person you're marrying in the dream is your current spouse, make no mistake: this is a spirit husband or spirit wife deceiving you in your dream. Once this marriage takes place in the dream, all hell will break loose in your real-life union.

The first sign will be unexplained anger toward each other, to the point that silly arguments erupt between the couple that make absolutely no sense, with neither party willing to compromise. This is usually followed by blatant infidelity and disrespect for the relationship. It will become almost impossible to forgive your partner, and for everything you know you're doing wrong in the relationship, particularly cheating on your partner, this spirit will see to it that you justify your behavior by blaming your partner as the cause of it.

Why Counseling Alone Fails

I have witnessed so many relationships go through the scenarios above. They visited religious and secular marriage counselors, prayed with their religious leaders, and still the relationship ended in divorce. While speaking with these people, my number one question was always: Did any of them seek the spiritual aspect of the relationship, rather than only observing the physical or external happenings?

This is where I become so confused. How could those who label themselves religious fail to address and focus on the spiritual aspect of such matters? This is just another example of religious people violating the principle behind Ephesians 6:12 and 2 Corinthians 4:18. Both scriptures insist that we place our energy and effort on unseen things.

How to Respond

The worst thing any of these couples could do to bring resolution to this evil is attack one another. Instead, they must collectively go on a five- to seven-day fast with intense prayer, praying specifically against the spirit husband or spirit wife. The couple must be in complete agreement in ridding their relationship of this stubborn spirit. Any sign that these stubborn spirits give, showing their victims are not on one accord with each other, becomes legal grounds for the spirit not only to remain in the lives of their victims, but to increase its efforts to destroy the couple's relationship.

Written By: Kevin L A Ewing
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He that finds a wife!

Wow! What a beautiful day to be alive! It's a pleasure to challenge our thinking once again. Today, I want to address the single ladies and share some godly wisdom with them. Scripture says, "He who FINDS a wife finds a good thing" (Proverbs 18:22). We often read this verse without realizing its deeper meaning.

"What was King Solomon implying when he said, "He that finds a wife?" Does he mean that one should look for someone who is already married? If that's the case, can we say that he's promoting adultery? The answer is no! In fact, what Solomon is saying through divine inspiration is quite simple. A man should seek a woman who possesses the traits of a good wife, such as a wifely character, behavior, attitude, and overall mindset."

Ladies, please don't come for me; hear me out for a moment. You cannot qualify for this wife position if your sole focus is to achieve marriage instead of being the true definition of a wife. Believe me when I say that a wife and a marriage are two separate conditions and positions. In fact, I will take it a step further; the actual institution of marriage must require the mindset of both parties to be aware that husband and wife should have been established mentally before physically declared by a pastor or marriage officer.

The marital union was designed for the couple involved to be reciprocal as it relates to catering to one another and working in harmony to achieve the goals of the marriage union. Unfortunately, with an anti-wife or even anti-husband mindset, the union becomes a liability from the beginning instead of an asset, as we'll discover.

Simply put, a woman should be a wife mentally first before legally becoming a wife through marriage. It is only then, according to scripture, that when she is sought and found by a man, she becomes a good thing. The word good means that which is beneficial.

In support of this revelation, God said In Genesis that it is not good that man should be alone. Not that the man being alone was a flaw in God's creation, but this aspect of his creation was incomplete (Eve now becomes necessary).

Interestingly, in the Bible, God did not say he would make a wife for Adam. Instead, he stated he would make him a helpmate. This description emphasizes the role and function of the "good thing" or benefit that is Adam's wife. A helpmate is someone who assists, supports, helps, encourages, and promotes her partner. She is someone who is compatible, proper, and well-suited to her partner. This is what a wife should be, mentally and emotionally.

In a marriage, the man is considered his wife's head and protector. However, this is only possible if both parties accept and respect this divine order. The man should seek guidance, wisdom, knowledge, and understanding from God to fulfill his role as the head of the household, as God is the architect of this union. The ultimate purpose of this union can only be achieved with unity and mutual support between the husband and wife. Any division between them will have negative consequences for their relationship. It is important to remember that a house divided against itself will inevitably fall.

The opposite or resistance to this order produces the Jezebel and Ahab spirit. Suggesting the wife taking on the head position (Jezebel spirit) and the husband being led by his wife (Ahab spirit). As a quick note, Jezebel cannot exist unless there is an Ahab; Ahab surrendered his authority to Jezebel, thus producing the following end result: confusion, frustration, anger, hate, unforgiveness, pride, jealousy, craftiness, manipulation, intimidation, illegal domination and eventually death.

"Will there be no conflict between these divine unions? Of course not. However, it is more likely that they will stay together rather than separate because the benefits of the relationship outweigh the differences they experience. Furthermore, applying God's principles regarding these unions ensures their success."

Ladies, my words of wisdom for you today are that you should prepare yourself mentally to be a wife before you decide to become one physically. As it is commonly known, our behavior is influenced by our thoughts. Therefore, it is essential to observe the qualities of a potential partner's behavior that make them suitable for marriage. This should be a guiding principle when considering a marriage partner."

Kevin L. A Ewing

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