Today, we will explore the topic of relationship curses. These teachings aim to give you a deeper understanding of how such curses can operate in a person's life, often covertly.We often hear the word "blessings" from our pulpits so much that one must wonder, do curses even exist? Moreover, are we unknowingly involved with people or things that may be producing curses in our lives? Have you ever wondered why you and your partner just can't agree, or has your desire that was once reserved for your mate uncontrollably drifted off towards a former partner? And what about this one? You are willing to risk the security of your current relationship for a moment with a former partner who cannot provide for you?
Deuteronomy 28:15 warns that you will suffer from various curses if you don't follow God's commandments and statutes. These curses can be expressed wishes for evil or misfortune to befall a person, place, or object. They may come from supernatural sources like witchcraft or negative words spoken against someone. The bottom line is that curses can limit the potential of their victims until they are removed.
According to the Scripture above, a curse is brought about by disobeying God's commands and statutes. This implies that for someone to successfully curse or cast spells on another person, the victim must be violating God's laws, meaning there must be a spiritual opening in their lives.
Regarding relationships, each one has a purpose of preparing you for your ultimate relationship. Even if a past relationship didn't work out, there was still something important that you were supposed to learn from it. It's essential to remember that you should never bring the baggage of your previous relationships into your current one. Every new beginning deserves a fresh start, so it's crucial to let go of the past and start anew.
For your new relationship to stand a chance at success and a fresh start, you must destroy or remove all photos, letters, jewelry, clothing, or anything that brings the behavior, idea, or memory of your past relationship into your current relationship. Especially if the former relationship was sexually charged, abusive, deceitful, adulterous, frustrating, etc. The reason is that these items and people are now considered things accursed as they relate to your new relationship. Any presence of them will produce a repeat in your currently existing relationship with an end result of the division between the parties involved.
Let's look at what God instructed Moses to tell the children of Israel before they entered Canaan, the Promised Land. "Speak to the children of Israel and say to them, 'When you have crossed over the Jordan into the land of Canaan, you shall drive out all the inhabitants of the land from before you, destroy all their pictures and molten images, and completely demolish all their high places.'" (Numbers 33:51-52)
The Scripture mentioned above suggests that to avoid repeating past mistakes, we must disassociate ourselves from certain aspects of our past. This is particularly important for individuals who are starting new relationships and may struggle with the desire to return to their former partners despite being treated poorly by them. This desire may be fueled by letters, cards, pictures, or other items exchanged between the parties during their previous relationship. As long as these items remain in their possession, they may negatively influence their current relationships, potentially leading to their downfall.
In the book of Joshua, God warned Joshua and his people about the city of Jericho. Everything in the city was considered cursed, and they were told to keep themselves away from the cursed things and people. Failure to do so would bring a curse upon themselves and their people. The Scripture from Joshua 6:18 reads, "And ye, in any wise keep yourselves from the accursed thing, lest ye make yourselves accursed, when ye take of the accursed thing, and make the camp of Israel a curse, and trouble it." It's interesting how holding onto items or people from past relationships can lead to trouble in current relationships.
It's interesting to note that Scripture does provide a solution to this. God informed the children of Israel that to remove the curse, the following must occur: "And it shall be, that he that is taken with the accursed thing shall be burnt with fire, he and all that he hath: because he hath transgressed the covenant of the LORD and because he hath wrought folly in Israel." (Joshua 7:15). However, I do not suggest you burn your former mate with fire. Instead, it is recommended that you destroy all items and things obtained in that relationship by fire and discontinue all forms of communication with that person, such as texting, emails, voicemails, phone calls, WhatsApp, and so on.
Would your current relationship not be reaching its full potential because either you or your partner are still secretly interacting with former partners? Could the piece of jewelry from your ex-lover that you've never mentioned to your current partner be the cause of conflict in your relationship? Is it possible that the lingerie given to you by your former partner is the reason for your sexual dissatisfaction with your husband because it reminds you vividly of your ex and gives you a solid temptation to rekindle your relationship?
Dear friend, if you wish to have peace of mind and a healthy relationship, it is essential to remove any people or things from your life that bring you back into bondage with those whom God has released you from. Even things that are remotely related to them can invoke a curse on your relationship. This morning, God is speaking to you. You have prayed to God for understanding and a solution to the discord in your relationship. Please use the revelation that he has provided for you.
There is a way that seems right to a man, but the end of his route guarantees him death Proverbs 16:25.
Kevin L A Ewing
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