Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 28, 2016

Is Your Relationship Controlled By Witchcraft?

So you don't like your son's girlfriend or your daughter's

boyfriend. You may have preferred if your son had married someone else or if your daughter had made a better choice in who she decided to marry.


As a parent, it is essential to understand that you should not interfere with, dictate, manipulate, or ruin the relationships of others, especially those of your children. You have already lived your life, so it is crucial to avoid the temptation to live indirectly through your children. Unfortunately, many relationships have been stifled or destroyed because of controlling mothers or intimidating fathers who had no business meddling in relationships that were not theirs to control. It is important to respect the autonomy and freedom of others to make their own choices in life.


 One of the greatest tragedies I have witnessed in relationships is the uncanny desire of a parent to resort to witchcraft in an attempt to destroy the unions of their children by manipulating the minds of their children's spouses or mates. In some cases, both parties bring about division and establish their will. All along, the victims have no idea that their flesh and blood have resorted to evil spiritual means to make their lives a living hell. While you're sleeping at night, they are forging evil covenants with evil spirits to oppress you!


We must ask God to give us the gift of discernment or amplify our understanding to be spiritually enabled to detect, discover, and distinguish these people and their evil devices. Scriptures say, "Do not enter the path of the wicked and do not walk in the way of evil. Avoid it, do not travel by it; turn away from it and pass on". Now, read carefully why the scripture advises such actions: "For these evil people sleep not unless they have done evil and their sleep is taken away unless they have caused someone to fall" Proverbs 4:14-16.


 The Bible tells us that a man's enemies are that of his household, Matthew 10:36. Very rarely would a person's natural enemies or those constantly opposing him be that of a stranger or someone unfamiliar to them. I have dealt with many of these cases before, and believe me when I say to you that it will require much prayer and fasting for the spiritual eyes of the victims to realize that it is their own doing this evil to them. Some time ago, a young lady was encouraged to see me concerning some strange happenings in her relationship that she knew was unnatural. This lady, who did not realize how much her mother hated her partner, was advised by her mother via witchcraft practices to place certain items and sprinkle certain unknown concoctions in the dwelling of her and her partner. This mother convinced her daughter that what she was giving her and advising her daughter to do would improve things in the home, even though the daughter was not to tell her partner what her mother was urging her to do. Aside from all of this, whenever the daughter would visit the mother's home, the mother would always "predict" negative things that would happen between her daughter and her partner, and according to the daughter, precisely what the mother said was what would happen. The daughter was unaware that her mother had her bewitched to the point that she would never see her mother as the evil seed sower. She was, instead, viewing her mother as the one that has her back.


It was inevitable that the couple would eventually have heated arguments, face financial difficulties, and develop an interest in people outside their relationship. Shockingly, the lady's mother even suggested that she see other people. Under her mother's spell, the daughter believed everything her mother advised her was correct.


I want to say to someone that the source of your unexplained financial losses, discord, foolish arguments, kids acting up, you and your family not being able to progress, and your lack of desire for your mate is due to family members and in-laws working against your union via witchcraft. They either believe their loved one is too good for you or are just jealous of your relationship with their relative. This scenario is more common than you could imagine, and only God's wisdom can free you from this evil. The scripture says, "Through knowledge shall the just be delivered" Proverbs 11:9. I mentioned this because I have witnessed many resort to the same source of evil for relief and only multiply their sorrows. In other words, you cannot fight witchcraft with witchcraft. The scriptures clearly say, "Any kingdom divided against itself will fall" Matthew 12:25. 


 If you are under demonic oppression caused by someone who practices witchcraft. The signs include constant confusion, difficulty sleeping, irrational arguments, tiredness, frustration, forgetfulness, financial challenges, abnormal sexual urges, and recurring perverted dreams. You might also feel someone feeding you in your dreams or experience pain around your neck and shoulder areas. The person responsible would usually act sheepishly and offer you (cursed) items as gifts for your home, food, or spiritual items to wear for good luck, etc. Please be aware of such offers, as they are meant to restrict you spiritually and will, by default, limit you physically.


I cannot place enough emphasis on this, but you and your partner are victims of some selfish family member/s who, for whatever reason, has issues with your union and wants to see your marriage fail. I advise you to pray against the spirit of witchcraft and controlling spirits. Still, more importantly, the ongoing havoc in your life results from evil spirits summoned from evil altars. Ask God to reveal the point of contact in your home, such as some strange gift given to you, a book, figurine, clothing, etc., used as a point of contact to maintain the evil hurled at you. Whatever God reveals to you regarding particular items, you must destroy them by fire!


It is important to remember that our actions have good or bad consequences. The Bible teaches us that we will reap what we sow. Those who intentionally harm others are laying the groundwork for a challenging future for themselves and their loved ones. Remember that God will hold us accountable for the evil we inflict upon others. Furthermore, according to biblical principles, we will always harvest more than we sow. So, let us be mindful of our actions and strive to do good for others.


 Today, many folks need help and clarification about why trouble after trouble frequents them with no relief. Could it be the harvesting of the evil seeds their parents or even themselves planted in the past in their attempt to destroy others that they're now reaping today? Please make no mistake, my friend. Every action will cause a reaction. So do what is right now so that somebody will do the right thing for you and your children in the future.


Kevin L A Ewing

ewinglakevin@icloud.com

kevinlaewing.blogspot.com

www.kevinlaewing.com



Wednesday, May 18, 2016

Seeds produce after their kind

One of the greatest errors that we make in life that would eventually change the course of our lives, is our inability to carefully analyze the seeds we plant in our lives.

Now to be clear in what I am saying, I am referring to seeds as, people that we would eventually marry or what I also refer to as folks we forge covenants with. Scriptures, says that every seed produces or replicates after its kind, Genesis 1:11. In other word an Apple seed must produce Apples and a grape seed will only produce grape. Jesus himself said, “Make a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit”, Matthew 12:33.

Using the above mentioned spiritual law as our point of reference, we must now ask ourselves the question, why is it that we rarely if ever do our due diligence, in terms of research on the FAMILY of the person that we intend to forge a covenant with in regards to marrying them? Again, if the biblical law dictates that every seed produces after its kind then why do we insist on marrying that man or woman whom we know good and well, is a descendant from a family of Alcoholics, Sweetheart keepers, divorcee, barrenness, anti-God, etc.?

Let me be crystal clear here! I am not discriminating against such families, I am not even remotely suggesting you're too good for them. However, what I am saying, is the spiritual seed (curse) of that family is automatically levied on the descendant of the members of that family. Therefore, until the curse is recognized and broken, you are in essence marrying or covenanting with the evil spiritual forces that plague that family. Again, it does not matter what these persons portray on the outside. For example, your future mate maybe a Lawyer, Doctor, CEO of a company or even own their own business, unknowing to these people if their family line is under a particular curse then it will be just a matter of time before they will be challenge by the evil trends of their family. Again, once a family is under a curse it is only a matter of time before the signs of what that family is all about decides to display itself. It’s like time release capsules that’s released in each member of that family and things begin to go down hill from that point forward. Interestingly enough, any family member that attempts to break this curse or decides to give their life to the lord will be targeted by the spirits that govern the curse over the family to place overwhelming pressure on that family member that attempts to break free.

The older generations had a clear understanding of this. Do you recall back in the day when you brought your significant other over to meet your parents or grandparents? While you were all about listing the good qualities along with how beautiful or handsome your significant others were, your folks wanted to know where they came from in terms of family. The first question your folks would ask, particularly your grandparents would be, "Sweetie who ya people is"? In other words which family do you hail from? Of course the reasoning behind this was quite clear to the parents and grandparents and that is they wanted to connect the fruit which would have been your significant other to the tree which was the family they came from to determine if they would add to your life or take away from your life.

Old folks sayings such as, "Look before you leap" and "A little can tell you what a lot will be like" were all rooted in the biblical laws that says, "Every seed produces after its kind, Genesis 1:11 and you’d know the tree by its fruit, Matthew 12:33. Make no mistake, every family have secrets and more than likely you'll never know these secrets, especially in the beginning of the courtship. Nevertheless, the tentacle of whatever those secrets are in that family will eventually rear its head in the members of that family one day and by extension into the lives of those that they marry. Trust me when I say to you that there are many folks walking about daily that appear normal and seem to have everything in place. However, deep within them is a time release capsule of utter misery waiting for the right victim to bind themselves to and released the curse upon their lives. In all fairness to the family member that’s carrying the curse more than likely they have zero idea that they are under a curse. Therefore, it isn’t unusual to hear a victim of these circumstances make the following statements, “Man if I had known what I know now I would never marry so and so”. “Boy! From the day I said I do, my life was never the same and happiness is but a distant memory to me”.

You see my friend, the kind of society we reside in, promotes the idea of marrying someone that can help you or someone that have a good job, education etc. The reality is you’re program from a young age to only observe the outward appearance, again such as education, a person having their own home or business etc. When the reality is these things will eventually mean absolutely nothing when the person with these things that you once saw as a security net is making your life a living hell. Stupid advice from those that claim they want the best for you, such as, “Love who love you”, “Marry someone who could do for you” or “Make sure the person you marry have a good car, house and a degree” is in reality unconsciously setting you up for future disaster. Many of you reading this article right now I am sure can relate to what I am saying simply because you’re probably currently living this nightmare or you had a former experience.

Nevertheless it will always and continue to be God's desire for all of us to experience a happy and fulfilling life. This is why He insist we read and apply his spiritual laws that will cause us to navigate our way through life and connect with his best for our lives. The scripture says that there is a way that will always seem right to us but we are guaranteed according to this same spiritual law that destruction will be our end result when we decide to do things our way, Proverbs 16:25.

I do not know who God is speaking to through this article today, but what I do know is that God knows the end of all beginnings. Thus, he's fully aware of how your beginning will end with your future prospect. Therefore, place your misleading feelings and emotions on hold for a moment and earnestly ask the creator of all things, "Lord is this the person you desire me to be a life partner with? Father, please reveal to me the things I am ignorant to about this person, because your word clearly states that we are destroyed because of a lack of knowledge, Hosea 4:6.

Lord you know my heart and I cannot hide from you how I feel about this person but at the same time I cannot afford to waste my precious life with this person if this is not the person for me. Therefore lord, if this is not your best choice for me, then just how you harden the heart of Pharaoh to resist Moses, I am begging you to harden my heart towards this person so that I would not marry this person who would ultimately change the course of my life for the worse in Jesus mighty name. Amen! 

Friends hear me in your spirit today, everyone have family curses and family blessings, ask God right now to break you free from any blood line curses that maybe over your life that you may not be aware of and to enforce the generational blessing of your ancestors upon your life in Jesus mighty name amen!

Written By: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewng@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com


Tuesday, June 9, 2015

The parasitic relationship

One of the greatest consumers of anyone's time,is being with someone that clearly doesn't want to be with you.
If you're in a relationship where you're the one always trying to make things happen, always begging for love and affection, always giving to your partner but never receiving anything in return, consistently being neglected and ignored and most of all you only become a necessity if is to bring some type of pleasure to the other party, I think Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles, can clearly see that its time to make your exit!
A parasite is something that feeds off of something that is living! A parasitic relationship is where you'd find a person in a relationship who consumes or takes away everything from the other person with zero remorse, guilt or shame. These folks are self centered, egotistical, arrogant and selfish are but a few word to describe this person, that have absolutely no concern for you. In fact it is their belief that they were placed on the earth for the world to cater and serve them.
I don't know who you are this morning, but clearly you don't know your worth or you've been convinced otherwise. This fool that you're with has intercepted and diverted you from your God intended partner. At best this person is a hindrance to your God divine appointments and through your association with them it will be nearly impossible for you to succeed in life but more importantly enjoy life.There is someone out there more than likely in search of you who is willing and able and has been purposefully design to treat you like the King or Queen that you are. However, your current relationship has misled you into taking on a love-slave mentality that provides zero benefits to you! WAKE UP! AND ASK GOD TO BREAK THAT SPELL OFF OF YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW SO THAT YOU CAN BE AVAILABLE FOR WHAT GOD HAS SPECIFICALLY MADE JUST FOR YOU!
There are many today, who have refused to accept such simple advice and are now living a life of deep rooted regrets that has since transformed into bitterness. This post is just confirmation to what you know good and well you should have done a longtime ago.
If you've found yourself in this position, I beg you to remove yourself from this toxic parasitic relationship immediately. It is depleting you of your self-esteem, confidence, and polluting your purpose. If you don't leave, then you will eventually become bitter, angry, confused and see life and love in a completely negative light. Bottom line, your parasitic partner would have succeeded in transforming you into DAMAGED GOODS!
My words of wisdom in unequivocally and abundantly clear on this morning and they are:
"IF YOUR "SO CALLED" RIGHT HAND OFFENDS YOU CUT IT OFF NOW"
Written By: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Is your relationship advancing, stagnating or demoting you?


In order for you to have a clearer idea in understanding how you ended up where you're currently located, be it physically or spiritually. Then consider whom or what you have connected yourself to.

Every connection will determine one of three things as it relates to your life; it will either:

1) Advance you

2) Stagnate you or

3) demote you

Whatever life seems to be issuing you right now is a direct result of whom or what you've connected yourself to in the past or currently. Thus, your life is the sum total of your connections. Failure is as a result of what you have connected yourself to. Success is as a result of what you have connected yourself to, happiness, joy, peace, sadness, trouble, confusion, frustration are all the end results of former or current connections.

Things are not just happening to you because they can happen. Instead the history of your end result will determine that your original connection produced your current results.

The bottom line my friend, your connections has been and will continue to be the determining factor as to whatever it is that you ended up with in the end. Satan himself understands this principle, that the best way to remove a person from their God intended destiny, is to subtly connect that person with something or someone from him (Satan) in an effort to stagnate or take that person backwards in life..... My God I'm feeling this post today......

Therefore if you're dissatisfied with your current or past results in whatever area of your life, then don't blame the results, instead CONSIDER YOUR CONNECTION!

Written By:Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com

Friday, September 27, 2013

IT'S ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS!

In my line of work, one of the things our company focuses on is relationships building. It is their belief that the more we enhance our relationship with our customers, our customers commitment and loyalty to us would be far greater to us than to our competitors.

Initially, I some what wrestled with this idea until I began to implement the idea for myself. What I discovered was, as large and well known as the company that I work for is. It was my relationship with our clients that kept the client and the company together. In fact, my behavior, attitude, the way I dressed etc unknowing to me was the company to them! The bottom line was, folks don't have relationship with companies, instead people have relationships with people!

The point I am getting to this morning is simply this, whomever you're interacting with or having a relationship with and that's any relationship for that matter, folks will judge whatever it is that you represent based on what you present to them. So many folks are turned off from God when they observe the behavior of those that represent him. They find some of his representatives to be hostile, mean, bias, dishonest, unpleasant etc. Therefore, in the mind of the unbeliever, they're thinking to themselves, why should I be a part of your group if the end result are hostility, anger, pettiness, dishonesty etc?

Why not ask yourself right now, who or what have I been portraying, based on my behavior? How are folks labeling or categorizing me? Are they saying that grumpy old woman, that mean Boss, or are they saying that's the man with the bossy wife or the woman with the mean husband? What about your kids? Are they being mistreated by others because of the unpleasantness you display?

You see my friend, you are either directly or indirectly being judged based on your behavior, appearance etc. unfortunately, that judgment isn't just limited to you but its tentacles are penetrating whatever and whoever you represent. Well you may say you don't care what others think. Well you must care because not only do you represent you but you represent others directly and indirectly as well, be it your church, your job, your children, your club etc. I have had many favors granted to me in life because someone knew my Mother, Father friend etc. Their relationship which was obviously good made available good benefits for me. Will your relationship with others produce rejection or acceptance for those you represent?

My words of wisdom on this calm wonderful sunrise morning is, revisit your relationships and try to see yourself through the eyes of those whom you have a relationship with as well as those that you don't have a relationship with. Now seriously think about how your relations with others will effect your children or whatever it is that you represent after you've moved on. Can you honnestly say it will be a benefit to those that you represent.

The premesis of relationships is the ability to motivate and inspire others to not only want to have a relationship with you but to continue that relationship with you to the extent that for whatever reason the relationship has ended they still treat you and those that are connected to you with respect, dignity and favor.

Written by: Kevin L A Ewing

kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS BOUND BY WITCHCRAFT!

Okay, parents, this one is for you! So you don't like your son's girlfriend or your daughter's boyfriend.

Maybe you would have preferred if your son had married someone else or your daughter had made a better choice in marrying.

In spite of the above scenarios parents, you do not have the right to disrupt, invade, control or destroy the union of others particularly that of your children. You have lived your life, so stop trying to live your life through your kids...... So many relationships never had the opportunity to fulfill its purpose simply because some Mother saw the need to control or a Father saw the need to intimidate.

One of the greatest tragedies I have witnessed in relationships is the uncanny desire of a parent to resort to witchcraft in an attempt to destroy the unions of their children by manipulating the minds of their children's spouses or mates and in some cases both parties to bring about division and to establish their will.

The Bible tells us that a man's enemies are that of his household, Matthew 10:36. I dealt with a case some time ago, where a Mother was advising her daughter via witchcraft practices to place certain items in the dwelling of her and her partner. This mother convinced her daughter that what she was giving her and advising her daughter to do would make things better in the home, even though the daughter was not to tell her partner what her mother was encouraging her to do.

It was only a matter of time that violent arguments began to erupt, financial troubles exploded, and their desires that were once reserved for each other began to drift towards folks outside their relationship.

I am lead to say to someone whom this message is registering to, that the source of your unexplained financial losses, discord, silly arguments, kids acting up, not being able to progress and your lack of desire for your mate is due to family members and in-laws working against your union via witchcraft.

The evidence of this spirit of witchcraft on your life and your union is displayed through constant confusion, not being able to sleep, always tired, frustrated, fatigued, unable to recall much. It's almost impossible to save monies, strange sexual urges but never with your partner, constant pains around your neck and shoulder areas. Some of the most notable signs are; having frequent dreams of having sex or someone feeding you in your dreams. My friend these are all spiritual signs of demonic oppression that has descended upon you.

I can not place enough emphasis on this, but you and your partner are victims of some selfish family member/s that for whatever reason have issues with your union and wants to see your union fall apart. My advice to you is to pray against the spirit of witchcraft and controlling spirits. Ask God to reveal the point of contact in your home such as some strange gift that was given to you, a book, figurine, clothing, etc. that has been used as a point of contact to maintain the evil being hurled at you. Whatever God reveals to you, you must destroy it, personally, I would burn it.

For those of you reading this that are actively participating in intentionally destroying the lives of others.... Scripture is clear, it is only what one sows that shall he reap. In your quest to destroy the happiness of others, you are simultaneously securing difficult times in the future for you and your children via the evil you are so meticulously inflicting upon the children of others. God will see to it that you are recompensed for the evil you have distributed to others!


Many folks are lost as to why trouble after trouble is being hurled at them with absolutely no signs of relief. Could it be the harvesting of the evil seeds your parents planted in the past in their attempt to destroy others that you're reaping today? Make no mistake my friend, every action will cause a reaction. So do what is right now, so that you can secure the right thing being done to you and your children in the future.


Written by: Kevin L A Ewing

kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com


Sunday, May 6, 2012

R-E-S-P-E-C-T!




Respect will always be the adhesive that keeps any relationship together. Whatever problem that arises in a relationship, I can guarantee you its root cause is a violation of respect.


Respect acts as an invisible barrier that governs the standard of any relationship as it relates to the behavioral and verbal communication. Each party has an innate understanding as to how far to go with each other, what borders not to cross. Respecting each others role in the relationship is pivotal for a successful relationship. 


The reality is, if you're seriously in love with someone or have great concern for them, then that genuine love or great concern will determine that you ought to treat and communicate to and with each other in a respectful manner. I find it almost impossible to comprehend, when one claims to love or be concern about another but has zero respect for them...
This makes absolutely no sense at all! In fact, in my opinion I see it as being hypocritical.


Consistent actions coupled with communication will always reveal the heart of the one that claims to love you or be concern about you. Ultimately if they are hell bent on disrespecting you, then I can assure you that their version of love or concern is at best polluted.


The bottom line my friend, whenever the God designed order of any relationship is challenged, which is giving respect to the head of that relationship and respecting each other, then the respect or integrity of that relationship is being challenged as well. My advice is quite simple for this topic and that advice is: whenever you observe any form or type of disrespect at any point or area of your relationship, do not hesitate to have it addressed, instead have it addressed immediately. Your immediate attention to this seemingly irrelevant act will not only bring your relationship in order but secure for yourself and the relationship a peace of mind. Simply put, respect maintains order!


If allowed to continue, then simultaneously prepare for division as a result of that previous unchecked disrespect that initiated the disorder. Any house, kingdom or relationship divided against itself "MUST" fall, Matthew 12:25.   


"DISRESPECT IS THE GENESIS OF DISORDER THAT IF NOT CORRECTED MUST END IN DIVISION"




Written by: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

I love you but I'm not in love with you


The above topic can be considered some of the most devastating words ever spoken into the hearing of anyone, particularly those who were under the impression that they were involved in a sincere and committed relationship. In fact it can become so devastating, that the recipient of these words can spiral into a deep depression and a state of utter hopelessness as a result of it.


Today we want to unearth some very common but overlooked relationship signs that signal this all too common statement prior to its admission. Simultaneously, we will discover where the recipient of these words for the most part were equally responsible for such an outcome, thus,   making themselves co-conspirators to their own predictable ending.


Denial of anything is defined as the disbelief in the existence or reality of a thing. It can also be defined as the refusal to recognize or acknowledge what is blatantly obvious to everyone else but intentionally ignored and dismissed by others. This is worthy to note at this strategic point in our teaching because we will also discover that denial, inordinate love coupled with non-reciprocal caring, affection and general concern in a relationship provides all the necessary components for an unhappy and predictable ending.


Amazingly, I have discovered that it has become normal for folks to intentionally live in a constant state of denial in their relationships in order to maintain and sustain a so called “peace of mind”. Now, I will admit, this was quite difficult for me to comprehend until I understood two very important things about the folks that do this, and they are A) They are severely lacking in confidence and understanding and B) They have program themselves to believe that they cannot exist or function properly without this person whom they’ve willing subject themselves to under the deception of true love.


Let’s shift our attention for a second and begin to shine the lime light on the one that makes such a statement and the word I want to use in this teaching in labeling this person is the word vain. The word vain is defined as: being excessively proud of or concerned about one's own appearance, qualities, achievements, etc. also a person that lacks the ability to genuinely care or sincerely be concern about the interest or well-being of someone else.


With the above understanding, it now takes us into the mind of such a person and why it is so easy for them to lead others into a make believe world of unpretentious love and without notice do away with them as if they never mattered at all. It is important to note here that these people diligently seek their prey and the type of persons that they are looking for are those that never had the love of a mother or Father, those that are on the rebound from a previous relationship, those that lack confidence, those that are easily dependent on other people, and more importantly those that trust easily and without question subject themselves to the will of others. The truth is, these deceivers will temporarily become what you desire in an effort to get from you what they want and in most cases the tenure of this process is short live and concluding with the victim becoming extremely hurt and outrageously bitter, and the perpetrator walking away with absolutely no remorse or sense of guilt. In fact, in the victim’s quest to figure out from the perpetrator what has happened the perpetrator sees the victim as a bother and sees themselves as a victim…… wow!


Scripture reminds us that those that follow after vain persons shall have more than enough poverty, Proverbs 28:19. Poverty is characterized as, the state or condition of having little or no money, goods, or means of support; condition of being poor. So it is safe to say that the main sign of such folks is their unique ability to take from us and consistently leaving us in a lacking state particularly emotionally. Scripture further warns us that, “He that follows vain people are void of understanding” Proverbs 12:11. So as you would have read in the above scripture the one that is following this vain person lacks understanding, meaning when they would have decided to ignore or deny the reality of this person it is clear that they also do not understand the pending hurt and pain that this person will issue them in short order.


Therefore because of the callousness of this person it is easy for them to issue the words “I love you but I’m not in love with you” unfortunately, because they were never in love in the first place. The bible tells us that we will know them by their fruits. A fruit is the clear unequivocal sign of what a tree is. If the fruit is an apple then the tree must be an apple tree. In this case if this person’s fruits are insensitivity, selfishness, and sees you as a stepping stone rather than an equal’ then it is abundantly clear that you are dealing with a vain person that you need to have removed from your life expeditiously if you’re interested in having a happy life.


My words of wisdom to you on this day is to, abandon the denial mindset that you have created to accommodate your misleading relationship. If you insist on keeping things they way that they are, then prepare yourself for the all too common words “I love you but I’m not in love with you”. In all honesty these words are reserved until a new victim has been discovered by the perpetrator, which is an additional sign to you that their time with you has come to an abrupt halt.


Heavenly Father, I pray that you expose this vain spirit and bring their diabolical intent to an immediate halt. I also pray that every reader of this article will look for the fruits of these individuals as signs in recognizing this deceptive evil in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.


Written by: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com 

Monday, March 12, 2012

Cursed People, Produce Cursed Relationships


Today, we will explore the topic of relationship curses. These teachings aim to give you a deeper understanding of how such curses can operate in a person's life, often covertly.

We often hear the word "blessings" from our pulpits so much that one must wonder, do curses even exist? Moreover, are we unknowingly involved with people or things that may be producing curses in our lives? Have you ever wondered why you and your partner just can't agree, or has your desire that was once reserved for your mate uncontrollably drifted off towards a former partner? And what about this one? You are willing to risk the security of your current relationship for a moment with a former partner who cannot provide for you?

Deuteronomy 28:15 warns that you will suffer from various curses if you don't follow God's commandments and statutes. These curses can be expressed wishes for evil or misfortune to befall a person, place, or object. They may come from supernatural sources like witchcraft or negative words spoken against someone. The bottom line is that curses can limit the potential of their victims until they are removed.

According to the Scripture above, a curse is brought about by disobeying God's commands and statutes. This implies that for someone to successfully curse or cast spells on another person, the victim must be violating God's laws, meaning there must be a spiritual opening in their lives.

Regarding relationships, each one has a purpose of preparing you for your ultimate relationship. Even if a past relationship didn't work out, there was still something important that you were supposed to learn from it. It's essential to remember that you should never bring the baggage of your previous relationships into your current one. Every new beginning deserves a fresh start, so it's crucial to let go of the past and start anew.

For your new relationship to stand a chance at success and a fresh start, you must destroy or remove all photos, letters, jewelry, clothing, or anything that brings the behavior, idea, or memory of your past relationship into your current relationship. Especially if the former relationship was sexually charged, abusive, deceitful, adulterous, frustrating, etc. The reason is that these items and people are now considered things accursed as they relate to your new relationship. Any presence of them will produce a repeat in your currently existing relationship with an end result of the division between the parties involved.

Let's look at what God instructed Moses to tell the children of Israel before they entered Canaan, the Promised Land. "Speak to the children of Israel and say to them, 'When you have crossed over the Jordan into the land of Canaan, you shall drive out all the inhabitants of the land from before you, destroy all their pictures and molten images, and completely demolish all their high places.'" (Numbers 33:51-52)

The Scripture mentioned above suggests that to avoid repeating past mistakes, we must disassociate ourselves from certain aspects of our past. This is particularly important for individuals who are starting new relationships and may struggle with the desire to return to their former partners despite being treated poorly by them. This desire may be fueled by letters, cards, pictures, or other items exchanged between the parties during their previous relationship. As long as these items remain in their possession, they may negatively influence their current relationships, potentially leading to their downfall.

In the book of Joshua, God warned Joshua and his people about the city of Jericho. Everything in the city was considered cursed, and they were told to keep themselves away from the cursed things and people. Failure to do so would bring a curse upon themselves and their people. The Scripture from Joshua 6:18 reads, "And ye, in any wise keep yourselves from the accursed thing, lest ye make yourselves accursed, when ye take of the accursed thing, and make the camp of Israel a curse, and trouble it." It's interesting how holding onto items or people from past relationships can lead to trouble in current relationships.

It's interesting to note that Scripture does provide a solution to this. God informed the children of Israel that to remove the curse, the following must occur: "And it shall be, that he that is taken with the accursed thing shall be burnt with fire, he and all that he hath: because he hath transgressed the covenant of the LORD and because he hath wrought folly in Israel." (Joshua 7:15). However, I do not suggest you burn your former mate with fire. Instead, it is recommended that you destroy all items and things obtained in that relationship by fire and discontinue all forms of communication with that person, such as texting, emails, voicemails, phone calls, WhatsApp, and so on.

Would your current relationship not be reaching its full potential because either you or your partner are still secretly interacting with former partners? Could the piece of jewelry from your ex-lover that you've never mentioned to your current partner be the cause of conflict in your relationship? Is it possible that the lingerie given to you by your former partner is the reason for your sexual dissatisfaction with your husband because it reminds you vividly of your ex and gives you a solid temptation to rekindle your relationship?

Dear friend, if you wish to have peace of mind and a healthy relationship, it is essential to remove any people or things from your life that bring you back into bondage with those whom God has released you from. Even things that are remotely related to them can invoke a curse on your relationship. This morning, God is speaking to you. You have prayed to God for understanding and a solution to the discord in your relationship. Please use the revelation that he has provided for you.

There is a way that seems right to a man, but the end of his route guarantees him death Proverbs 16:25.


Kevin L A Ewing
ewinglakevin@icloud.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com
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Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Are you under demonic Manipulation in your relationship?


I am sure the above topic will capture the attention of many—particularly those that can not make sense of the strange happenings they are continually experiencing in their relationship.

Witchcraft, voodoo, Obeah, hex, spells, curses, incantations, roots, etc. are all modern-day ingredients for manipulating relationships. Sad to say, folks who engage in such diabolical activity have absolutely no idea of the present and long term consequences that are associated with these evils.

Firstly, what is demonic manipulation? Demonic manipulation is where you have demonic forces heavily influencing your mind and spirit, to do things you would not ordinarily do. For the most part, these activities are initiated by someone casting spells or curses towards you or your relationship. Demonic manipulation can also be defined as the capturing of one's reasoning ability, forcing their victim to conform and subject themselves to the wishes and desires of their Manipulator. At the same time, the victim has zero understanding of what they're doing and has literally become a living puppet to their Manipulator. It is all a matter of the Manipulator placing the desired spell on their victim to achieve their desired results. As an initial sign, the victim becomes exceptionally defensive, always right, unreasonable, and passionately controlling. These signs are not gradual but very sudden and unexpected. It is almost as if you're dealing with a complete stranger.

Yes! I know the above understandings seem far fetched and just unreal. However, you would be amazed as to the massive amount of relationships that are controlled by such means, and I am sure some of the signs you've seen in others, if not yourself. One of the interesting things concerning folks under demonic manipulation is that there is no middle ground with them. Meaning, there is either intense love (not real love) or extreme hate. Also, those that are under such spells. Whatever it is that they are manipulated to do, they become desperate and obsessed with achieving it, to the point that everything else in their lives, even those critical, becomes secondary (such as family, finance, health, etc.). It is as if they have abandoned all forms of common sense and reasoning to pursue what is unequivocally clear to everyone else that death and destruction will become the conclusion of their erroneous decisions.

Scripture has provided clear insight as to what is really happening in such a case. Jesus said, "No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other Matthew 6:24. Unfortunately for this person, they have successfully convinced themselves that everyone else is wrong concerning what is obviously wrong with them. It is only their own reasoning that they listen to (which is really the reasoning of evil spirits polluting their minds with everything that will destroy them eventually).

Just for a moment, think of yourself, your partner, or any relationship you're familiar with. Where someone in the relationship just abruptly without warning made the decision to abandoned their family, left home, and moved in with someone else, quit their job, and made a drastic decision without the other party's input and having no backup plan. What about your partner all of a sudden despising you, losing all forms of respect, affections, love, gentleness, consideration, and kindness towards you? My friend, these are all common signs of your partner and relationship being heavily attacked by demonic manipulation.

Some folks believe they would be a better fit with the things you have. For example, they think they should be with the person you're with. Hence, they've resorted to evil means to bring division in your union with the ultimate goal of bringing about indefinite separation and complete devastation to your once-happy life. Demonic manipulation makes you look away from what is obviously right and embrace what is wrong, again with the ultimate goal of destroying its victim. I want to make clear that demonic manipulation is not only reserved for relationships-but can spread its tentacles in every area of a person's life.

Whoever and wherever you are this morning, let me say to you that this is your day to be set free from years of mental slavery from the powers of demonic manipulation. God wants to emancipate you, your spouse, family members, and friends from the shackles of manipulation so that you can live a free and enjoyable life.

Ask yourself, "Am I really free?" In other words, are you doing what you genuinely want to do with your life or relationship, or is there someone or something influencing you to such a degree that you have literally become a slave to 99.5% of their desires and only .5% of yours. Now ask yourself, "Is this fair to me?" Well, let us referrer to the mentioned scripture Matthew 6:24, which says, "A man can not serve two masters for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other." The keyword in this text is the word, either. Suggesting that despite the influence on him, he is still the one making a choice to serve one of the masters.

So, why don't you make the choice today and sincerely as God to unshackle your mind and remove the scales off your eyes? Ask him to forgive you of any door you might have left open or unattended spiritually, that gave this evil the legal right to enter your life. Continue by asking God to assist you in restoring your home, marriage, relationship, job, or whatever it is that you've been manipulated out of. For the word declares that we can do nothing without him and that we can do all things through him who strengthens us, John 15:5, Philippians 4:13.

Finally, from this day forward, begin to continually believe and behave as if you are free from demonic manipulation. Every time you pray, outfit yourself with the whole armor of God Ephesians 6:11, 13. This armor is the spiritual suit that will cause you to stand against the schemes, tricks, manipulation, and games of the Devil.

Heavenly Father, please have mercy upon the readers of this article and release them indefinitely from the powers of darkness and manipulation. Cause them to see what they could not see before, and that is freedom and life which your son Jesus Christ died for; we ask these things in the mighty name of your son Jesus Christ. Amen!

Written by: Kevin L A Ewing





Tuesday, February 21, 2012

The Mimicking Spirit.


Everyone has, at some time or another, experienced a relationship in which the person they initially met has so much in common with them. In fact, they were convinced that they had met their soul mate due to the similarities and coincidences they had experienced. Surprisingly, once the relationship has begun, everything abruptly changes, and it now appears as if they're in a relationship with the Devil himself as opposed to who they thought was their soul mate.

The above scenario is the most common occurrence in the average relationship. The purpose of the source perpetrating this act is to mislead its victim into believing something that really doesn't exist and, at best, to keep this individual who truly desires a genuine relationship with the person God has ordained for them and at least to delay or hinder them in their search for their chosen mate. Thus, I want to teach today about the source and root of this evil, and the source and root of this evil is known as a "mimicking spirit."

Mimic is imitating or copying in action, speech, behavior, etc. It also means to impersonate, imitate, or simulate. The general idea is to be or become something that one is certainly not.

Interestingly enough, there is nothing new about this spirit; like I said earlier, its mission is to mislead its victim but, more importantly, to make its victim focus entirely on what appeases their five senses. This makes the victim utterly ignorant of the spiritual forces that have blinded them physically from the obvious; consequently, the victim succumbs to the likeness of what appears to be accurate and not the true nature of what it really is.

So let us look at a biblical scenario to bring about spiritual clarity. "And one of the multitudes answered and said, Teacher, I have brought unto you my son, who has a dumb spirit" Mark 9:17. Usually, we would read this text and think nothing of it, but there is a revelation here. The revelation here is the man did not say his son was dumb. Instead, he said that his son has a dumb spirit. Suggesting that there was a spirit in his son that mimicked the behavior of a genuinely dumb person. At the same time, giving others the impression that the boy was really dumb.
Another example of this would be found in Luke 13:10-17. In this particular story, there was a woman that was cripple to the average person observing her. However, Jesus said in verse 11 that this woman has a "spirit of infirmity." Again, suggesting that there was really nothing wrong with this woman. However, this spirit in her has been mimicking the behavior of a cripple person for 18 years. In both cases, the root of these people's behavior was that of a spirit and not the actual person; wow!

Someone you have allowed into your life that seemed to be the perfect mate or friend, but if you carefully take note spiritually your entire time with them, you would discover that they have either been observing and learning you from a distance or they have attentively and skillfully listen to you (as it relates to what you desire in a person or a mate) and has become whatever it is that you verbally released to them. Fortunately, this spirit that inhabits that person can only mimic for so long; in short order, it will show its ugly head. Here are some of the signs to look for to conclusively identify this spirit:

  • Bipolar type personality
  • Extremely moody
  • Selfish
  • Always anxious to know more about their victim from their victim
  • Appear to be very passionate and overly concern
  • Very controlling
  • Very crafty and deceitful
  • Abnormally secretive, releasing very little information about themselves
  • Once their objective has been achieved, they immediately lose interest in their victim.
  • Love playing the victim role if it appears as if they'll be discovered
  • Extremely catering and sensitive initially but always with an ulterior motive
  • Have absolutely no problem moving on to the next relationship to begin their vicious heartless diabolic cycle all over again, simultaneously leaving destroyed lives behind with zero remorse for their victims.

These are but a few of the obvious signs to identify this crafty spirit that has misled so many and has also been the cause of so many folks' bitterness and inability to trust others anymore. I know some of you reading this right now are in complete shock because you thought your case was an isolated incident.

My advice to you, my friend, is, firstly, people are rarely what they present themselves to be, especially if their motives are evil. The truth is the best of us; occasionally, we pretend to be something or someone we're not. Therefore it is our responsibility to do our homework concerning these people, research, and ask questions about their character. Secondly, because this evil is of a spiritual nature, it has to be addressed spiritually. Therefore take this opportunity and ask God to give you a spirit of discernment so that you can see beyond what your five senses are dictating to you that, for the most part, will pan out to be erroneous.

Finally, every one of us has the God-given ability to detect in our spirit when something is not right with the spirit of others. In our conversations with others, we always say, "My spirit doesn't take to him/her" sounds familiar? At that moment, your spirit attempts to give you a heads-up to pending danger; 99.9% of the time, this heads-up is usually correct. As evidence of this, scripture says, "For what man knoweth the things of a man, save or except the spirit of man which is in him? Even so, the things of God knoweth no man, but the Spirit of God" 1 Corinthians 2:11.

YOU ARE NOT READING THIS ARTICLE BY ACCIDENT OR COINCIDENCE!


Heavenly Father, in the name of your son Jesus Christ we command every mimicking spirit to expose themselves openly now! We also command in the name of Jesus that this spirit not only becomes confused with their diabolical plans but that it would leave its host indefinitely and that the spiritual eyes of its victim be open spiritually In the matchless name of Jesus Christ. Amen!


Written by: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com



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