
Unforgiveness stands out as one of the most persistent challenges for Christians. Interestingly, many believers plead with God for forgiveness of their own sins, yet they easily find excuses not to forgive others. Insincere prayers occur when we repeatedly break God's laws and then ask for His forgiveness, expecting to receive it. Meanwhile, we might feel wronged by a comment made by someone, which wasn't even directed at us, and we struggle to forgive them.
Some may say, "Well, Kevin, I have no malice, bitterness, or unforgiveness towards those folks." This may be true to you, but why is it that you automatically become upset or hostile whenever that person's name comes up in any conversation? You see, my friend, you must clear "YOU" (your heart) if it is your desire for God to work for you! It is that simple.
Let's explore what scripture says about this understanding: "If I harbor iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me" (Psalm 66:18). Your iniquities have created a divide between you and your God, and your sins have concealed His face from you, so that He will not hear" (Isaiah 59:2). The scriptures clearly establish a direct link between our ability to forgive others and God's willingness to respond to our requests. Additionally, the scriptures indicate that if we conceal our sins, we will not prosper (Proverbs 28:13). Therefore, our difficulty in making progress or bearing fruit may stem from our failure to confront hidden sins like unforgiveness. Proverbs 28:13 did not conclude with a hopeless end. Instead, it says that if we acknowledge, confess, and forsake our (hidden and open) sins, God promises he will have mercy on us.
My friend, I don't know about you, but I need God to listen to me and help me. Scripture clearly states that this cannot occur if I hold resentment against those who have wronged me. In fact, the more my spiritual eyes are open to this revelation, the more it becomes difficult not to realize that by forgiving others, I am, in fact, releasing myself from the mental bondage of hate, resentment, revenge, anger, and frustration that I have toward those whom I refuse to forgive. Lord! Please release me from the self-imprisonment of mental slavery that came about through unforgiveness. I cannot do this any longer, Lord; clearly, I'm punishing myself while foolishly believing I am hurting those I refuse to forgive.
Lord, we ask you to help us remove the stubborn stains of unforgiveness, bitterness, disappointment, and whatever else from our hearts that's causing you to turn a deaf ear to our prayers. Father, from a human perspective, it is difficult not to mention or frequently speak of the hurt and pain others have inflicted on us, but your word assures us that all things are possible with you. Father, we ask you to help us overcome this seemingly impossible mountain of unforgiveness. Lord, we surrender our hearts to you this day and disarm ourselves from the shackles of pride and self. Please walk us out of the prison of entitlement and clothe us with garments of humility so you can work on our behalf in the name of your son and our savior, Jesus Christ. Amen!
Written By: Kevin L A Ewing
ewinglakevin@icloud.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com
Let's explore what scripture says about this understanding: "If I harbor iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me" (Psalm 66:18). Your iniquities have created a divide between you and your God, and your sins have concealed His face from you, so that He will not hear" (Isaiah 59:2). The scriptures clearly establish a direct link between our ability to forgive others and God's willingness to respond to our requests. Additionally, the scriptures indicate that if we conceal our sins, we will not prosper (Proverbs 28:13). Therefore, our difficulty in making progress or bearing fruit may stem from our failure to confront hidden sins like unforgiveness. Proverbs 28:13 did not conclude with a hopeless end. Instead, it says that if we acknowledge, confess, and forsake our (hidden and open) sins, God promises he will have mercy on us.
My friend, I don't know about you, but I need God to listen to me and help me. Scripture clearly states that this cannot occur if I hold resentment against those who have wronged me. In fact, the more my spiritual eyes are open to this revelation, the more it becomes difficult not to realize that by forgiving others, I am, in fact, releasing myself from the mental bondage of hate, resentment, revenge, anger, and frustration that I have toward those whom I refuse to forgive. Lord! Please release me from the self-imprisonment of mental slavery that came about through unforgiveness. I cannot do this any longer, Lord; clearly, I'm punishing myself while foolishly believing I am hurting those I refuse to forgive.
Lord, we ask you to help us remove the stubborn stains of unforgiveness, bitterness, disappointment, and whatever else from our hearts that's causing you to turn a deaf ear to our prayers. Father, from a human perspective, it is difficult not to mention or frequently speak of the hurt and pain others have inflicted on us, but your word assures us that all things are possible with you. Father, we ask you to help us overcome this seemingly impossible mountain of unforgiveness. Lord, we surrender our hearts to you this day and disarm ourselves from the shackles of pride and self. Please walk us out of the prison of entitlement and clothe us with garments of humility so you can work on our behalf in the name of your son and our savior, Jesus Christ. Amen!
Written By: Kevin L A Ewing
ewinglakevin@icloud.com
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com
www.kevinlaewing.com