I love you but I'm not in love with you

The above topic can be considered some of the most devastating words ever spoken into the hearing of anyone, particularly those who were under the impression that they were involved in a sincere and committed relationship. In fact it can become so devastating, that the recipient of these words can spiral into a deep depression and a state of utter hopelessness as a result of it.


Today we want to unearth some very common but overlooked relationship signs that signal this all too common statement prior to its admission. Simultaneously, we will discover where the recipient of these words for the most part were equally responsible for such an outcome, thus,   making themselves co-conspirators to their own predictable ending.


Denial of anything is defined as the disbelief in the existence or reality of a thing. It can also be defined as the refusal to recognize or acknowledge what is blatantly obvious to everyone else but intentionally ignored and dismissed by others. This is worthy to note at this strategic point in our teaching because we will also discover that denial, inordinate love coupled with non-reciprocal caring, affection and general concern in a relationship provides all the necessary components for an unhappy and predictable ending.


Amazingly, I have discovered that it has become normal for folks to intentionally live in a constant state of denial in their relationships in order to maintain and sustain a so called “peace of mind”. Now, I will admit, this was quite difficult for me to comprehend until I understood two very important things about the folks that do this, and they are A) They are severely lacking in confidence and understanding and B) They have program themselves to believe that they cannot exist or function properly without this person whom they’ve willing subject themselves to under the deception of true love.


Let’s shift our attention for a second and begin to shine the lime light on the one that makes such a statement and the word I want to use in this teaching in labeling this person is the word vain. The word vain is defined as: being excessively proud of or concerned about one's own appearance, qualities, achievements, etc. also a person that lacks the ability to genuinely care or sincerely be concern about the interest or well-being of someone else.


With the above understanding, it now takes us into the mind of such a person and why it is so easy for them to lead others into a make believe world of unpretentious love and without notice do away with them as if they never mattered at all. It is important to note here that these people diligently seek their prey and the type of persons that they are looking for are those that never had the love of a mother or Father, those that are on the rebound from a previous relationship, those that lack confidence, those that are easily dependent on other people, and more importantly those that trust easily and without question subject themselves to the will of others. The truth is, these deceivers will temporarily become what you desire in an effort to get from you what they want and in most cases the tenure of this process is short live and concluding with the victim becoming extremely hurt and outrageously bitter, and the perpetrator walking away with absolutely no remorse or sense of guilt. In fact, in the victim’s quest to figure out from the perpetrator what has happened the perpetrator sees the victim as a bother and sees themselves as a victim…… wow!


Scripture reminds us that those that follow after vain persons shall have more than enough poverty, Proverbs 28:19. Poverty is characterized as, the state or condition of having little or no money, goods, or means of support; condition of being poor. So it is safe to say that the main sign of such folks is their unique ability to take from us and consistently leaving us in a lacking state particularly emotionally. Scripture further warns us that, “He that follows vain people are void of understanding” Proverbs 12:11. So as you would have read in the above scripture the one that is following this vain person lacks understanding, meaning when they would have decided to ignore or deny the reality of this person it is clear that they also do not understand the pending hurt and pain that this person will issue them in short order.


Therefore because of the callousness of this person it is easy for them to issue the words “I love you but I’m not in love with you” unfortunately, because they were never in love in the first place. The bible tells us that we will know them by their fruits. A fruit is the clear unequivocal sign of what a tree is. If the fruit is an apple then the tree must be an apple tree. In this case if this person’s fruits are insensitivity, selfishness, and sees you as a stepping stone rather than an equal’ then it is abundantly clear that you are dealing with a vain person that you need to have removed from your life expeditiously if you’re interested in having a happy life.


My words of wisdom to you on this day is to, abandon the denial mindset that you have created to accommodate your misleading relationship. If you insist on keeping things they way that they are, then prepare yourself for the all too common words “I love you but I’m not in love with you”. In all honesty these words are reserved until a new victim has been discovered by the perpetrator, which is an additional sign to you that their time with you has come to an abrupt halt.


Heavenly Father, I pray that you expose this vain spirit and bring their diabolical intent to an immediate halt. I also pray that every reader of this article will look for the fruits of these individuals as signs in recognizing this deceptive evil in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.


Written by: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinewing@coralwave.com
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Cursed People, Produce Cursed Relationships

Today, we will explore the topic of relationship curses. These teachings aim to give you a deeper understanding of how such curses can operate in a person's life, often covertly.

We often hear the word "blessings" from our pulpits so much that one must wonder, do curses even exist? Moreover, are we unknowingly involved with people or things that may be producing curses in our lives? Have you ever wondered why you and your partner just can't agree, or has your desire that was once reserved for your mate uncontrollably drifted off towards a former partner? And what about this one? You are willing to risk the security of your current relationship for a moment with a former partner who cannot provide for you?

Deuteronomy 28:15 warns that you will suffer from various curses if you don't follow God's commandments and statutes. These curses can be expressed wishes for evil or misfortune to befall a person, place, or object. They may come from supernatural sources like witchcraft or negative words spoken against someone. The bottom line is that curses can limit the potential of their victims until they are removed.

According to the Scripture above, a curse is brought about by disobeying God's commands and statutes. This implies that for someone to successfully curse or cast spells on another person, the victim must be violating God's laws, meaning there must be a spiritual opening in their lives.

Regarding relationships, each one has a purpose of preparing you for your ultimate relationship. Even if a past relationship didn't work out, there was still something important that you were supposed to learn from it. It's essential to remember that you should never bring the baggage of your previous relationships into your current one. Every new beginning deserves a fresh start, so it's crucial to let go of the past and start anew.

For your new relationship to stand a chance at success and a fresh start, you must destroy or remove all photos, letters, jewelry, clothing, or anything that brings the behavior, idea, or memory of your past relationship into your current relationship. Especially if the former relationship was sexually charged, abusive, deceitful, adulterous, frustrating, etc. The reason is that these items and people are now considered things accursed as they relate to your new relationship. Any presence of them will produce a repeat in your currently existing relationship with an end result of the division between the parties involved.

Let's look at what God instructed Moses to tell the children of Israel before they entered Canaan, the Promised Land. "Speak to the children of Israel and say to them, 'When you have crossed over the Jordan into the land of Canaan, you shall drive out all the inhabitants of the land from before you, destroy all their pictures and molten images, and completely demolish all their high places.'" (Numbers 33:51-52)

The Scripture mentioned above suggests that to avoid repeating past mistakes, we must disassociate ourselves from certain aspects of our past. This is particularly important for individuals who are starting new relationships and may struggle with the desire to return to their former partners despite being treated poorly by them. This desire may be fueled by letters, cards, pictures, or other items exchanged between the parties during their previous relationship. As long as these items remain in their possession, they may negatively influence their current relationships, potentially leading to their downfall.

In the book of Joshua, God warned Joshua and his people about the city of Jericho. Everything in the city was considered cursed, and they were told to keep themselves away from the cursed things and people. Failure to do so would bring a curse upon themselves and their people. The Scripture from Joshua 6:18 reads, "And ye, in any wise keep yourselves from the accursed thing, lest ye make yourselves accursed, when ye take of the accursed thing, and make the camp of Israel a curse, and trouble it." It's interesting how holding onto items or people from past relationships can lead to trouble in current relationships.

It's interesting to note that Scripture does provide a solution to this. God informed the children of Israel that to remove the curse, the following must occur: "And it shall be, that he that is taken with the accursed thing shall be burnt with fire, he and all that he hath: because he hath transgressed the covenant of the LORD and because he hath wrought folly in Israel." (Joshua 7:15). However, I do not suggest you burn your former mate with fire. Instead, it is recommended that you destroy all items and things obtained in that relationship by fire and discontinue all forms of communication with that person, such as texting, emails, voicemails, phone calls, WhatsApp, and so on.

Would your current relationship not be reaching its full potential because either you or your partner are still secretly interacting with former partners? Could the piece of jewelry from your ex-lover that you've never mentioned to your current partner be the cause of conflict in your relationship? Is it possible that the lingerie given to you by your former partner is the reason for your sexual dissatisfaction with your husband because it reminds you vividly of your ex and gives you a solid temptation to rekindle your relationship?

Dear friend, if you wish to have peace of mind and a healthy relationship, it is essential to remove any people or things from your life that bring you back into bondage with those whom God has released you from. Even things that are remotely related to them can invoke a curse on your relationship. This morning, God is speaking to you. You have prayed to God for understanding and a solution to the discord in your relationship. Please use the revelation that he has provided for you.

There is a way that seems right to a man, but the end of his route guarantees him death Proverbs 16:25.

Kevin L A Ewing

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The Mystery of Faith!

The mystery of faith!

What is faith? Well scripture tells us that Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God, Romans 10:17. Therefore FAITH IS THE WORD OF GOD!

Whenever you exercise your faith you are in fact exercising the word of God. Whatever you are believing God for, DO NOT BELIEVE IN THE THING, BUT BELIEVE IN THE WORD OF GOD CONCERNING THE THING!

As money is the currency for goods and services in our natural world, so is faith the currency for things in the spirit world. Remember faith is the substance (substance is the material or the contents of what something is made up of). This same  faith is also the evidence (the evidence of anything is literally the proof of it) of things not seen.

So, simply put the word of God is the material of what I am hoping for and the word of God is also the evidence of the things I don't have or presently see, Hebrews 11:1.

Whenever you approach God for whatever it is that you desire, he will always search your request for FAITH or his word. Meaning what does his word say about what you're asking for. Scripture makes this clear when it said, "IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO PLEASE GOD WITHOUT FAITH OR HIS WORD, Hebrews 11:6.

Please, click on the link and watch this much needed teaching on faith...................http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/20791535

Minister Kevin L A Ewing

Are you under demonic Manipulation in your relationship?

I am sure the above topic will capture the attention of many—particularly those that can not make sense of the strange happenings they are continually experiencing in their relationship.

Witchcraft, voodoo, Obeah, hex, spells, curses, incantations, roots, etc. are all modern-day ingredients for manipulating relationships. Sad to say, folks who engage in such diabolical activity have absolutely no idea of the present and long term consequences that are associated with these evils.

Firstly, what is demonic manipulation? Demonic manipulation is where you have demonic forces heavily influencing your mind and spirit, to do things you would not ordinarily do. For the most part, these activities are initiated by someone casting spells or curses towards you or your relationship. Demonic manipulation can also be defined as the capturing of one's reasoning ability, forcing their victim to conform and subject themselves to the wishes and desires of their Manipulator. At the same time, the victim has zero understanding of what they're doing and has literally become a living puppet to their Manipulator. It is all a matter of the Manipulator placing the desired spell on their victim to achieve their desired results. As an initial sign, the victim becomes exceptionally defensive, always right, unreasonable, and passionately controlling. These signs are not gradual but very sudden and unexpected. It is almost as if you're dealing with a complete stranger.

Yes! I know the above understandings seem far fetched and just unreal. However, you would be amazed as to the massive amount of relationships that are controlled by such means, and I am sure some of the signs you've seen in others, if not yourself. One of the interesting things concerning folks under demonic manipulation is that there is no middle ground with them. Meaning, there is either intense love (not real love) or extreme hate. Also, those that are under such spells. Whatever it is that they are manipulated to do, they become desperate and obsessed with achieving it, to the point that everything else in their lives, even those critical, becomes secondary (such as family, finance, health, etc.). It is as if they have abandoned all forms of common sense and reasoning to pursue what is unequivocally clear to everyone else that death and destruction will become the conclusion of their erroneous decisions.

Scripture has provided clear insight as to what is really happening in such a case. Jesus said, "No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other Matthew 6:24. Unfortunately for this person, they have successfully convinced themselves that everyone else is wrong concerning what is obviously wrong with them. It is only their own reasoning that they listen to (which is really the reasoning of evil spirits polluting their minds with everything that will destroy them eventually).

Just for a moment, think of yourself, your partner, or any relationship you're familiar with. Where someone in the relationship just abruptly without warning made the decision to abandoned their family, left home, and moved in with someone else, quit their job, and made a drastic decision without the other party's input and having no backup plan. What about your partner all of a sudden despising you, losing all forms of respect, affections, love, gentleness, consideration, and kindness towards you? My friend, these are all common signs of your partner and relationship being heavily attacked by demonic manipulation.

Some folks believe they would be a better fit with the things you have. For example, they think they should be with the person you're with. Hence, they've resorted to evil means to bring division in your union with the ultimate goal of bringing about indefinite separation and complete devastation to your once-happy life. Demonic manipulation makes you look away from what is obviously right and embrace what is wrong, again with the ultimate goal of destroying its victim. I want to make clear that demonic manipulation is not only reserved for relationships-but can spread its tentacles in every area of a person's life.

Whoever and wherever you are this morning, let me say to you that this is your day to be set free from years of mental slavery from the powers of demonic manipulation. God wants to emancipate you, your spouse, family members, and friends from the shackles of manipulation so that you can live a free and enjoyable life.

Ask yourself, "Am I really free?" In other words, are you doing what you genuinely want to do with your life or relationship, or is there someone or something influencing you to such a degree that you have literally become a slave to 99.5% of their desires and only .5% of yours. Now ask yourself, "Is this fair to me?" Well, let us referrer to the mentioned scripture Matthew 6:24, which says, "A man can not serve two masters for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other." The keyword in this text is the word, either. Suggesting that despite the influence on him, he is still the one making a choice to serve one of the masters.

So, why don't you make the choice today and sincerely as God to unshackle your mind and remove the scales off your eyes? Ask him to forgive you of any door you might have left open or unattended spiritually, that gave this evil the legal right to enter your life. Continue by asking God to assist you in restoring your home, marriage, relationship, job, or whatever it is that you've been manipulated out of. For the word declares that we can do nothing without him and that we can do all things through him who strengthens us, John 15:5, Philippians 4:13.

Finally, from this day forward, begin to continually believe and behave as if you are free from demonic manipulation. Every time you pray, outfit yourself with the whole armor of God Ephesians 6:11, 13. This armor is the spiritual suit that will cause you to stand against the schemes, tricks, manipulation, and games of the Devil.

Heavenly Father, please have mercy upon the readers of this article and release them indefinitely from the powers of darkness and manipulation. Cause them to see what they could not see before, and that is freedom and life which your son Jesus Christ died for; we ask these things in the mighty name of your son Jesus Christ. Amen!

Written by: Kevin L A Ewing

The Mimicking Spirit.

Everyone has, at some time or another, experienced a relationship in which the person they initially met has so much in common with them. In fact, they were convinced that they had met their soul mate due to the similarities and coincidences they had experienced. Surprisingly, once the relationship has begun, everything abruptly changes, and it now appears as if they're in a relationship with the Devil himself as opposed to who they thought was their soul mate.

The above scenario is the most common occurrence in the average relationship. The purpose of the source perpetrating this act is to mislead its victim into believing something that really doesn't exist and, at best, to keep this individual who truly desires a genuine relationship with the person God has ordained for them and at least to delay or hinder them in their search for their chosen mate. Thus, I want to teach today about the source and root of this evil, and the source and root of this evil is known as a "mimicking spirit."

Mimic is imitating or copying in action, speech, behavior, etc. It also means to impersonate, imitate, or simulate. The general idea is to be or become something that one is certainly not.

Interestingly enough, there is nothing new about this spirit; like I said earlier, its mission is to mislead its victim but, more importantly, to make its victim focus entirely on what appeases their five senses. This makes the victim utterly ignorant of the spiritual forces that have blinded them physically from the obvious; consequently, the victim succumbs to the likeness of what appears to be accurate and not the true nature of what it really is.

So let us look at a biblical scenario to bring about spiritual clarity. "And one of the multitudes answered and said, Teacher, I have brought unto you my son, who has a dumb spirit" Mark 9:17. Usually, we would read this text and think nothing of it, but there is a revelation here. The revelation here is the man did not say his son was dumb. Instead, he said that his son has a dumb spirit. Suggesting that there was a spirit in his son that mimicked the behavior of a genuinely dumb person. At the same time, giving others the impression that the boy was really dumb.

Another example of this would be found in Luke 13:10-17. In this particular story, there was a woman that was cripple to the average person observing her. However, Jesus said in verse 11 that this woman has a "spirit of infirmity." Again, suggesting that there was really nothing wrong with this woman. However, this spirit in her has been mimicking the behavior of a cripple person for 18 years. In both cases, the root of these people's behavior was that of a spirit and not the actual person; wow!

Someone you have allowed into your life that seemed to be the perfect mate or friend, but if you carefully take note spiritually your entire time with them, you would discover that they have either been observing and learning you from a distance or they have attentively and skillfully listen to you (as it relates to what you desire in a person or a mate) and has become whatever it is that you verbally released to them. Fortunately, this spirit that inhabits that person can only mimic for so long; in short order, it will show its ugly head. Here are some of the signs to look for to conclusively identify this spirit:

• Bipolar type personality
• Extremely moody
• Selfish
• Always anxious to know more about their victim from their victim
• Appear to be very passionate and overly concern
• Very controlling
• Very crafty and deceitful
• Abnormally secretive, releasing very little information about themselves
• Once their objective has been achieved, they immediately lose interest in their victim.
• Love playing the victim role if it appears as if they'll be discovered
• Extremely catering and sensitive initially but always with an ulterior motive
• Have absolutely no problem moving on to the next relationship to begin their vicious heartless diabolic cycle all over again, simultaneously leaving destroyed lives behind with zero remorse for their victims.

These are but a few of the obvious signs to identify this crafty spirit that has misled so many and has also been the cause of so many folks' bitterness and inability to trust others anymore. I know some of you reading this right now are in complete shock because you thought your case was an isolated incident.

My advice to you, my friend, is, firstly, people are rarely what they present themselves to be, especially if their motives are evil. The truth is the best of us; occasionally, we pretend to be something or someone we're not. Therefore it is our responsibility to do our homework concerning these people, research, and ask questions about their character. Secondly, because this evil is of a spiritual nature, it has to be addressed spiritually. Therefore take this opportunity and ask God to give you a spirit of discernment so that you can see beyond what your five senses are dictating to you that, for the most part, will pan out to be erroneous.

Finally, every one of us has the God-given ability to detect in our spirit when something is not right with the spirit of others. In our conversations with others, we always say, "My spirit doesn't take to him/her" sounds familiar? At that moment, your spirit attempts to give you a heads-up to pending danger; 99.9% of the time, this heads-up is usually correct. As evidence of this, scripture says, "For what man knoweth the things of a man, save or except the spirit of man which is in him? Even so, the things of God knoweth no man, but the Spirit of God" 1 Corinthians 2:11.

YOU ARE NOT READING THIS ARTICLE BY ACCIDENT OR COINCIDENCE!

Heavenly Father, in the name of your son Jesus Christ we command every mimicking spirit to expose themselves openly now! We also command in the name of Jesus that this spirit not only becomes confused with their diabolical plans but that it would leave its host indefinitely and that the spiritual eyes of its victim be open spiritually In the matchless name of Jesus Christ. Amen!

Written by: Kevin L A Ewing

kevinewing@coralwave.com

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The law of synergy

In keeping with my promise on writing about relationships, I want to elaborate today on one, if not the main law that guarantees any relationship staying together. My first article for the year, which was posted a few weeks ago dealt extensively about our topic. In fact, we elaborated on the purpose of synergy and the many benefits that accompany it.

Today we will further explore this law from a relationship point of view and how when one comes to the understanding of this simple but powerful law. Their understanding will provoke not only change, but cause them to look carefully at the folks that  are presently occupying their time and determine for themselves whether they’re relationship is working for them or against them.

I want to make abundantly clear, that in order to produce and maintain synergy in any relationship, then the bedrock of that relationship MUST be pedestal on RESPECT!

Now, what is synergy? Well synergy is the combine effort of two or more people combining their resources seeking after the same goal, and with the same mindset. This couple or people will produce more as a team, than they were doing as individuals.

The bottom line, the entire concept of synergy is to always produce more. So before we go any further in this teaching, if your relationship is not or has not produce more than you were doing as individuals, then let me be the first to tell you that there has been a breech in the law of synergy which automatically causes the parties involved to work against each other.

Unfortunately, this breech is always initiated by a lack of respect by the parties involved towards each other. The word respect is defined as holding someone or something in high esteem or in great honor. The sub meaning of this word suggests or gives the idea of an invisible wall between the parties that even though they would feel the need from time to time when in an argument or disagreement to verbally or physically attack each other. The invisible wall called respect will only allow them to go so far simply because the high esteem or honor that they have for each other. Thus, your respect for your partner, places a demand on you to control your anger and your dislike of certain things that the other party would do that upsets you. If what I have just said is depleted in your relationship. Then the foundation in which synergy is suppose to be built has been compromised.

If you are presently involved in a relationship, where your partner behaves as if they’re better than you, belittles you, completely disrespects you, ashamed to be in public places with you and always have you isolated under the disguise that they only want to protect you, my friend these are all signs that, this person is working against you and clearly has no real interest or good intentions towards you but are totally consumed by their selfish pride ridden motives that will always exclude you. Remember the law of synergy, it provokes unity and sees everyone involve as equals making their individual contribution to complete the whole.

My article that was posted in this Colum on the 17th January 2012, “The law of antagonism” spoke clearly about when a team or couple begins to work against each other. Even though they are a team, if they are working against each other, then they must produce less than they were doing as individuals.

It is always God’s purpose that when he put anything together its results are always to produce more. Genesis 1:28 says, “And God blessed them, and God said unto them, be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth. Fruitful, multiply and replenish all speak of increase to any union that God has put together. If this is the case, then ask yourself, “If God has put your union together (be it business or romance) then why is it producing less?” Another scripture says, “And the LORD said, “Behold, they are one people, and they have all one language, and this is only the beginning of what they will do. And nothing that they propose to do will now be impossible for them” Genesis 11:6.

Wow! God himself said that if the people are one, speaking one language (meaning seeking the same goal and seeing each other as equal) not only will this be the beginning or their success as a team but nothing shall be impossible for them to accomplish…………

Question! Are you producing more in your relationship? Sorry! I didn’t hear that, did you say No? Then why are you holding on to something that is guaranteeing you less? Can’t you see that the world is passing you by, while you’ve been dormant for years all because you refuse to do what you know you have to do. The right person is in search for you even as you read this you’re probably admiring them everyday. They are equip with all that you desire, more importantly RESPECT for you! However it is impossible for them to find you, if you’re saddle down with that selfish, controlling, self centered, arrogant, I’m better than you person you have shackle yourself to. God wants you to live, and living begins with being connected to the right people, places and things that will cause you to produce more……..LIFE IS ABOUT PRODUCING MORE………IT’S CALL SYNERGY!

Heavenly Father, I pray for a complete divide and ripping away of anything or anyone that the readers of this article are connected to that has caused them to produce less for them, than they were doing by themselves. I further pray that you would replace that void with the right people and places in the matchless name of Jesus Christ. Amen!

Written by: Kevin L A Ewing

kevinewing@coralwave.com

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The law of antagonism

All relationships are governed by laws whether we admit it or not. As a matter of fact I would further my point by saying everything, be it seen or unseen meaning physical or spiritual has its boundaries or limits set by laws that governs or control its behavior.

With the above being said, then it would be wise in an attempt to better understand the nature of someone, we must first ascertain the laws that control or govern them or at least the principles and rules that they knowing or unknowingly subscribe to.

Now, what exactly is a law? Well, a law is defined as any set of rules or principles that regulates, govern or control the behavior or actions of anyone or anything, it is also the determining factor as to what the end result will be concerning someone or something based on the laws applied in that situation.

This now brings us to the law of antagonism which is one of a series of teachings that I will be writing on in the coming weeks concerning relationships. The law of antagonism dictates that anyone or anything that you have joined yourself to (in this case a relationship) however find yourselves consistently working against one another. This relationship according to this law is pre-destine to always produce, manufacture or result in less as a union than you were producing as individuals.

So, as you can see, this law whether you are aware of it or not once activated will determine a negative outcome it was designed to produce. However this is no newly discovered law. Jesus said, “Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and every city or house divided against itself SHALL not stand” Matthew 12:25. So, it is clear that we are guaranteed less in any relationship as long as we knowingly or unknowingly participate in this law. Make no mistake, laws do not wait on your approvals in fact it is waiting on your decision to be activated.

As an example, the law of gravity dictates that whatever goes up must come down. Again, this law is not seeking our opinions In order for it to perform what it was designed to do. Meaning, it is a rule and is applicable and dictates to everything and anything. It will not change based on how we feel but must always give the determined end result  based on its purpose of making things come down that goes up.

As it relates to relationships it is always God’s purpose for a relationship to produce MORE! Genesis 1:26 makes this crystal clear when it said, "And God blessed them (union or relationship) and said unto them, "Be FRUITFUL, MULTIPLY and REPLENISH the earth" Each of these words not only represents increase, but it suggests a continual  increase as long as this couple focus on working in harmony with each other and not against each other.

Based on everything that I have said so far I am sure you would agree that a prophet or committee is not necessary to conclude for you that your present relationship is in full swing of the law of antagonism if the continued results of that relationship has been and still is producing, manufacturing or concluding in, less joy, less peace, less love, less communication, less understanding, less respect, less romance and less of everything. Especially if you know within yourself that you were producing more of these things while you were by yourself.

My friend, please! Discontinue with the game playing, quite procrastinating the inevitable, stop the “I’m waiting on God line”, when you are fully aware that based on your recurring past and present circumstances as it relates to your relationship, God has spoken to you based on Matthew 12:25. That relationship will not and can not work. God will not bend or break his rules for you. The rules and laws of God are designed for you to see clearly in the mess of confusion that you’ve fond yourself in so that you can make a sound godly choice that will conclude in a God end result.

Ask yourself the question! Why would God desire to keep you in a relationship that is obviously producing less, if his purpose, intent and design for a relationship is to produce more? Well, like I always say, in order for you to know, recognize or even decipher what good is you must experience bad. Therefore the sole purpose of that temporary designed antagonistic relationship was to condition and prepare you for the one that he has chosen to connect you to, in an effort to produce more and not less.

My words of wisdom for you this marvelous morning is simply this; your past or present antagonistic relationship was and is a temporal season of conditioning and changing the way you think for the better, to embrace the good that is about to be presented to you. If you are bitter and not better as a result of it, then clearly you’ve not learned so get ready to experience it all over again. If you are better and not bitter as a result of it, then get ready because better days are ahead anxiously awaiting the arrival of your conditioned mind.

It is time to let go! God will only release the one that he has purposed for you to produce more with, when you decide to release that one that has been guaranteeing you a constant end result of less!

Heavenly Father, I speak a spirit of release accompanied with peace and the severing of every soul tie for those that have finally made up within their minds to move forward with the expectation of better awaiting their arrival, in the matchless name of Jesus Christ. Amen!

Written by: Kevin L A Ewing

kevinewing@coralwave.com

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