Whenever I hear someone say that they had a dream, I am always curious to know what messages are being revealed. Better yet, what revelation are they being supplied with to prevent future defeat or destruction for them?
About seven years ago, I met a young man that was in his first year of marriage. However, through his own admission, he said that he was going through a difficult time with his new wife. He said that they were always bucking heads and never seems to agree on anything. This gentleman further said that what had him so puzzled about his wife's behavior was that even after their verbal fights and constant disagreements, she would appear to be so sorry and apologetic for her behavior. He said that he was so confused by her behavior and didn't know what to do.
This gentleman said that it was a dream that he had that placed him in a perplexed state that in some way seem to be correlating with his wife's behavior. "One night, I had a strange dream. In this dream, my wife was lying in bed, the setting in the room was slightly dark. My wife seems to be somewhat sad. I can recall walking towards the bed, asking her what was wrong. She then reached towards me, looking even more depressed, while embracing me with a hug. We hugged each other, and she immediately resumed her position in bed. She then reached for the hem of her skirt that was just below her knee and slightly pulled it up towards her exposing wounds all over her thigh area, which I have never seen before. The dream ended".
As always, and this case is no exception, this gentleman was given revelation to the mystery behind his wife's behavior through his dream. As you would recall, the dream started with the couple in their bedroom, which symbolizes a private or intimate area of the couple's lives. However, since this gentleman's wife is the subject of this dream, the dream reveals her life's specifics. The wife lying in bed would indicate a position of comfort. Still, at the same time, because her facial expression denoted that of sadness, the dream is now revealing that she had made herself comfortable in her misery/depression. The embracing of her husband would indicate her reaching out but at the same time not genuinely revealing her real issues.
It was only when their embracing had ended. She resumed her place on the bed, realizing that her husband still hasn't figured it out. She then proceeded to uncover hidden wounds that he was completely unaware of, and at the same time, he knew that even in his dream, these wounds did not exist on his wife in reality. This part of the dream is now clearly revealing that his wife, in fact, had much hidden unresolved emotional hurt/pain that she has kept suppressing. As a reminder, the bedroom was slightly dark, revealing ignorance, in this case, the husband's ignorance of what is actually going on with his wife. The reality is, the dream was revealing that their fights had very little to do with whatever they were arguing about and everything to do with his wife acting out her past hurt and emotional pain, which were initiating these arguments. In other words, she was allowing her pain from her past to dominate her marriage.
After interpreting his dream, the gentleman said, his wife's behavior began to make complete sense to him. Also, due to the revelation of his dream, he decided to have a candid talk with his wife, hoping that she would be honest in revealing what's going on with her. Well, a few days following, I got a call from the gentleman. He stated that he did have a revealing discussion with his wife. She revealed that her father, whom she loved so much, always cheated on her Mom. As a child, it pained her to see her mother in so much pain and humiliation while, at the same time, so committed to her marriage despite her husband's repeated infidelities. She promised herself that she would never ever allow any man to treat her in such a way and that she was willing to walk away from her own marriage if it remotely resembled her mother's marriage. He added that his wife further explained that her desire to always be controlling, dominating, and stubborn were her preventative measures. He ended by saying they have decided to commit to counseling sessions and work together as a couple to get through this.
Again, here is a clear example of the spirit world via a dream is revealing the root cause of a natural/physical matter. In fact, this gentleman's dream literally revealed the mystery behind his wife's misery. I truly thank God for the gift of dreams and dream interpretation simply because God wants us to deal with their root issues to eliminate the problem altogether.
Stop ignoring your dreams because you're simultaneously ignoring revelations given to you regarding the mysteries taking place in your life.
Written By: Kevin L A Ewing
kevinlaewing.blogspot.com
kevinewing@coralwave.com
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